I’m in love with you in a funny sort of way. I’m in love and in a relationship with someone else quite happily. But I admire you from a distance – or up close, when we have our great discussions – and am so happy to know you, and a little bit crazy about you, but have no desire to take it any where else. But thank you for being you, thank you for opening up my eyes to a side of life I’ve neglected/denied, and hope that whatever the future brings I still will have you kind of in my life
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This article appears in Nov 19-25, 2009.


do you ever wonder if the person you speak of feels the same for you?
I bet she/he can feel that vibe…very honest..
Why not try polyamory?
Or… a threesome. Menage-a-trois I believe (I don’t have time to Google the right spelling so give me a break!).