Back in December, you and I went on a total of 6 dates. We had a great time, we added one another on Facebook, we both went to a big party on New Year’s… and we did it. But before we had sex, I asked you if you were interested in being official with me. You told me you just got over a bad breakup and had to think about it. Understandable.
But not once in January, did we get together. You said you were starting a new full time job and you were moving. That I get… But every weekend, because of something on your part we couldn’t get together. You were working a full time job and busy *before* but always made time to see me.
Then I go on Facebook this past weekend and what did I see in my newsfeed? “**** is now in a relationship with ****”!!!!!!!
I was thinking ‘Am I actually reading this right?’ I even thought for a sec it was one of my other Facebook friends who had the same last name as you…**double check**…NOPE IT’S YOU!
So I guess you decided to move on without me and start going out with this fucking asshole! You couldn’t even have the fucking decency to tell me you were seeing another guy, instead I find out on Facebook of all places!
What was wrong with *ME*? Wtf did this guy have that I didn’t? You know what, I’m better off without a selfish, manipulative cunt like you anyway, so the fucking hell with you! Thanks for wasting 2 months of my life when I could have spent it pursuing another girl! —I *Thought* I Had a Girlfriend
This article appears in Feb 2-8, 2012.
I’m sorry this happened, OB.
For future reference: when someone says “I’m not sure if I want to be official with you” usually means “I’m never going to be official with you.”
If they don’t like you enough now, they’re not going to be convinced of it, a) and b) why would you WANT someone who had to be convinced you were worthy of being official with?
You can do better, and next time you’ll be smarter about it too.
It probably doesn’t make you feel any better, but you definitely did dodge a bullet.
…missed the clues did we…sherlock
YOU GOT FUCKED AND CHUCKED O.P., BE GLAD IT WAS NOW, INSTEAD OF HAVING A KID IN YOUR LIFE.
That really sucks
I mean obviously the person had no courage to be straight up and honest with you so be happy nothing serious happened between the 2 of you
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Im sure there is nothing wrong with you OP, wrong girl that’s all that didnt have the guts to tell you the truth. It wouldn’t have been worth it in the first place if she cant be honest with you
Heres an idea – when someone says they wont be official – dont keep waiting on them. When they dont see you all month, they are no longer seeing you. It sucks to find out that way yes, but if you havent had any more dates, call a spade a spade already. Good luck and move forward happily!
“I have to think about it” = “Let me just get a few more rebound bangs in with other men before I decide”
ps ob: yea got a little desperation thing going..just say’n
you asked her to be “official” before you had sex? you’re lucky you ever got it in
Wasted two months???? You crazy? You had good times with the ‘Ho and ya got to bang her (hopefully senseless) ….. btw, we all banged her while you were waiting in line.
That’s unfortunate OP. Lesson learned I hope. The beginning of a relationship should be exciting and fun & spent together. You haven’t been with the person since new year’s. If someone doesn’t make the time to see you it means they don’t want to. No one is that busy, don’t accept that as an excuse. No one when it comes to new relationships. Keep looking OP that person just wasn’t the one for you.
It was only 6 fucking dates, well 5 dates and 1 fuck. Do you see the problem yet?
“What the fuck did this guy have that I didn’t?”
The ability to fuck properly! You just sucked in bed, buddy that’s all.
Hmmm, I wonder if she was already dating both of you and wasn’t sure who was right for her. It happens.
Like any relationship … it’s about two people that are a match for each other. If you didn’t mesh with what she wants, then try not to waste your time thinking about what he has that you don’t. Best to move on and find someone that will actually be honest and not string you along.
You asked her if she would be your girlfriend before you had sex? Bahahahah!!!! How to ignite the passion slick, maybe next time you can talk about her meeting your family while taking her from behind.
Love, live and learn.
Not necessarily in that order.
Speaking of double/triple posts, what happened to isocoles_kramer?
You were used for sex, OB. I guess it doesn’t just happen to women. You asked her before hand for a relationship and she said no. But you chose to fuck her anyway. What did you think your dick would be so mind-blowing that she would change her mind? She used you, pal. But you knew that and did it anyway.
Wow, a guy complaining about hump-me dump-me? Am I reading this right?
Jesus, dude grow a backbone and type POF into your browser, ffs before you start to cry.
It Happens OB, just be glad it was only a few dates. Lesson learned don’t emotionally invest in people so easily.
So I guess now is a good time to mail the new BF the pics you took new years….
you DID take pics, didn’t you?
sex tape?
no?
amateur…
She’s just not that into you ,,,,bahhh haaaaa