I just want to say thanks alot for leading me on for weeks with your stupid flirty text messages. Thanks for sleeping in my bed, telling me I’m the best and that you love me, thanks for letting me fall for you, and thanks for not realizing that the only reason I never made a move, is you were very drunk, and I really respect you, and our friendship means (or meant) alot to me. And most of all, thanks for completely avoiding me for weeks as your trying your luck with a mutual friend of ours, don’t worry, I’m sure he’ll jump right into bed with you, and I won’t even be mad at him. So, if anybodys wondering why I can’t bear to hang around with any of you guys, it’s her. If I have any real friends left, I’ll be at home.
—A bit confused.
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sometimes your own best friend is you, and vice versa. with that in mind, think back to that time, and ask yourself, did i do anything wrong, if no,then piss on that person. be yourself and have your own life.
Yeah man, maybe confront the problem head on instead of writing to the Internet about it. Staying in is not the answer. It sucks but that’s life, and believe it or not, it does go on.
You’re a man complaining because you feel that a woman led you on. You feel used and betrayed, because you believed what she said. And, according to what you say, she moved on to the next guy when she didn’t get what she wanted (sex).
Boohoo.
Welcome to the (pre-birth control) world of women. At least she didn’t get you pregnant and then bolt leaving you to face a stone-throwing mob who have no sympathy or empathy for a woman who is naive enough to believe everything a man says.
Now that I got that out of my system :)…
I am very proud of you for being decent. To honor the chivalry code of not taking advantage of woman who is not in the position to make reasonable decision is admirable.
I respect that you want the whole deal–the walk in the clouds kind of sex that is only possible when accompanied by mutual love and trust–instead of settling for instant gratification (the dogs humping in the street kind of sex).
And, although you are hurt, I think you will come to see that this experience was well worth the temporary pain, because you have just learned that the giving of your heart should be reserved for the person who shares the same values as you.
Life Sucks, I am impressed = )
Women tend to do this type of BS act a lot and “cover their asses” with lies and cute little stories they make up to make themselves seem like the good person. Seen it, lived it and cannot stand it.
Some dudes need to know when to put the foot down.
Welcome to the reality that beiong “friends” with a chick is a total myth they have perpetrated on you…if she didn’t fuck you in the first few dates, she’s after one of your friends instead…
Sorry.
hanging out for weeks saying i love you?
moving fast eh?