My young daughter and I decided to take the bus to avoid traffic to see the Canada Day Fireworks. While on the bus, there was a very cheap trashy greasy disgusting tart who was very drunk and mouthing off, swearing and being, well, trashy. The bus driver asked her to stop, but didn’t kick her off the bus, even after she told HIM to shutup in front of everyone. When she finally left, she called a couple of guys on the bus a racist slur amongst other profanities, right in front of my daughter. 1. She should have been kicked off the bus right away. The bus drivers should feel confident and supported by us to take this action. 2. It was horrific have a front row demonstration of how alive racism is in this city and how selfish and inconsiderate some very angry people are. Lady, I feel sorry for you. Your life will be nothing but suffering, and you can only blame yourself. I won’t let one bad apple ruin the bunch, but let it be known, Miss Trash, karma can and will bite you back.
—Miss Manners
This article appears in Jul 2-8, 2009.
Drunks are a strange beast OP, and nearly impossible to kick off without assistance from our friends at HRP. Under normal circumstances, this would be a no-brainer, but being Canada Day after fireworks, the bus was probably jammed elbow to elbow with people who just wanted to get home. The driver figured it’d be quicker and safer just to get the lady home ASAP than to make 50+ people wait for a police escort.
After my adventures last year with Canada Day, I was glad to not have to work it this year.
She was no bad apple… racism is alive and well in this part of the world. God knows why Nova Scotians would cling to such a backward way of thinking and pass it on to their children.
Kay, You pass on your racism about Nova Scotians… Give me a break…
Racism is “alive and well” in EVERY part of the world kay. At least here we don’t have any holy wars being waged in our streets like in a lot of other countries.
Ow, sorry you and your daughter had to see that, but sometimes a little reality is what we need to keep is all in check.
Karma threat #16,752. Karma is a busy, vengeful lady around these parts.
oh my
Kay- I hate to say it but Racism is alive and well EVERYWHERE my lady. Been to Toronto lately?! How about the Southeastern USA. Now THERE is a fucking eye opener!!!I have a good friend who is black and lives in Ontario. We “Pale” by comparison (pardon the pun).
Happy to say I don’t get it and am as stunned as the OP when I witness racist behavior. I grew up in Western Canada and didn’t see it at all having shared a school and made several friends of Sarcee natives. I’ve spent a lot of time, although never lived in Toronto proper, and still never witnessed what I see here in Nova Scotia in persona AND on the news. As far as I can tell we all bleed the same color and want for the same fundamental things. I just don’t get it. How can people ignore the science of our shared ancestry?
No one is apluading racism Kay… Just your ignorance towards the subject is astounding. Racism is everywhere not just Nova Scotia, by the way, if you hate so much about NS why dont you just leave? Or is some nova scotian keeping you locked up in his/her basement?
Kay, your hypocrisy never ceases to amaze me. You decry racial intolerance, while simultaneously gay-bashing in another thread. Such integrity you have!
You say you grew up in Western Canada, and had Native friends, yet you claim you never saw any racism at all. This leads me to believe you were either living under a rock or had your head buried in the sand. I spent the majority of my adult life up until 2 years ago living in the West, and I saw racism aplenty. Whether directed towards Native people, immigrants, or just non-caucasians in general, racism was just as pervasive there as anywhere else I’ve been. Need proof? You need only look so far as the Calgary white supremacist rally in March of this year.
Racism exists everywhere. It may present itself in different forms and target different groups, but it exists nonetheless. To deny its presence outside of Nova Scotia is absurd enough to basically invalidate anything else you have to say on the matter. At best, your ludicrous opinions are laughable, and at worst, they’re downright offensive. Try pulling your head out of your ass, you might actually gain some perspective.
Did I say meOw for president..I mean mayor!
ignorant, intolerant, hypocrite? I think NOT. If you want to judge me as an individual then judge me as an individual. I had ZERO personal encounters with racist behavior growing up in Calgary. I know nothing of and had nothing to do with any rally (sad news). Sorry your experience isn’t the same.
I think racists are pathetic. I wouldn’t tolerate gay-bashing or picking on retards either. I prefer to just let people be. I don’t agree with a gay lifestyle… so what? I don’t go out of my way to let individual men know what I think. I’m hardly a hypocrite for voicing my opinion on a blog.
Fuck you, me0w. I didn’t deny racism exists. I said I think it’s pathetic it’s so commonplace around here. I managed to grow up out west to not become racist and even living in Ontario I never witnessed anything like I see here so just how far do you think my head is up my ass, bitch?
Fuck off, mcgayle
Well I lived out west and I never (wink, wink) observed any racism against Natives or Asians, and I don’t think they allow those of African descent out there (I didn’t see too many). Yes the West is the paragon of a just and encompassing society. Just don’t mention you’re from the East coast.
The tag on this bitch is no longer very fitting.
sorry, kay, the coast doesn’t have a “Another Dumb Kay Bitch” option yet. maybe it doesn’t think so highly of you either.
Well kay you stated here
“I wouldn’t tolerate gay-bashing “
WELL… in the bitch To the gay guy in my office your going on and on about how much you get grossed out by 2 dudes SO that is tech gay bashing!
So, because I don’t support a gay lifestyle and would share that opinion on an anonymous blog (but would never treat anybody badly over who or how they screw) I’m gay-bashing? I think it simply qualifies as an opinion backed by reasoning of ewwww. It’s right up there with a limp handshake in my world. ewwww. If you want to see bashing, get in my face… but I’d never get in yours. How does that make me a bad person? It doesn’t. It makes me a straight bitch with a place to bitch.
From the person who says “Don’t judge”. Hypocricy anybody?
lifestyle thats the keyword you use kay…i’m sorry i turn away from you
Hey Bro, you get to pick your friends. And by “don’t judge” I mean it! I don’t look at a panhandler and decide oh, this one is a drunk and doesn’t deserve help. I don’t address a beggar and say, “I’ll give you a toonie but only if you’re not gay”
Isn’t “gay” a lifestyle? Holy cow! Are you bitches ever soft.
IMHO you should stay off the buses and avoid reality at all costs. Next time climb into your SUV and you won’t have to see the real world. SNOB.
kay and gee how do you pick your friends? Like everyone else you judge their character, their pluses and negatives, their lifestyles, etc and judge whether they match you. Judging is not a bad word.
No, but “presumption” is
Like how you “presume” every gay man is a sick, kinky, dirty pig? *Face palm* Here’s a new word to add to study at bedtime with your super superlatives, Kay: Hypocrisy. FUCK.
In case you didn’t notice, Kay, just because this is Internet Land doesn’t mean there aren’t real people here. Do you think the internet is all in your head? Whether you like it or not, you ARE interacting with other people, and treating them like they’re subhuman. Grow the fuck up.
Like I said before, if I were a crack whore just coming out of the closet you bitches would show some respect and tolerance for my views so how fucked up is that? Really! Why should I have to EMBRACE the homosexual lifestyle and all the whimsical shit that goes along with it? Where is that on the list of attributes defining good or decent people?
I’m sorry but I’m not going to teach my children homosexuality is normal nor healthy human behavior just because it happens (crack addiction ‘happens’ too. so does lying and cheating). I don’t think it is normal or healthy and I’m allowed an opinion. I am simply a product of my environment and (extensive) education. If you don’t like that, too fucking bad. It’s not like I get in your face about it so who gives a rat’s ass what my opinion is? Certainly not bitches on a public board who could read and respond or NOT.
About presumption… yes, I presume gay men have dirty anal sex and consider this a “normal” sex life. Tell me I’m wrong.
I’d be a hypocrite if I came to this site to stroke all the gay fella’s. I’m NOT that. I’d be a hypocrite if I grabbed the next guy I saw walking around in a dress and smashed his face in. I’m NOT that. I’d be a hypocrite if I turned a blind eye to a gay man getting beaten on my street. I’m NOT that either. YOU grow up a little and try again, bitches.
I say we approach some charity in HRM and hope for some funding to get kay and her backwoods thinking out of the province before she can breed more of her kind.
VOR : didn’t you hear… Mikey Faker I mean Baker et al….spent all the monies in our best interest on the Game Bids and sadly they never even got to stay long enough to smoke a ciggie afterward…. dang…….so the NPO he promised $$$ to got Dear John letters….. so no money for anybody
Having said that I hope if nothing else this new govt impeaches the entire Tory posse from Judy Judy Judy to Scary Barry, Morse the Horse and Noddy Roddy oh lets not forget Mark the Snark, sadly Baker the Faker escapes justice…
Are you equating being gay to being a crack whore? that’s a great choice… What does being educated “extensively” have to do with not appreciating a person’s personal freedom and their willingness to act on it in the face of persecution? I’m educated “extensively” as you so eloquently put it and I have no problem with what people chose to do in their own lives. If I’ve had “dirty anal sex” albeit with a woman what does that make me? Will I magically lose my degree?
Kay-> you say don’t judge, Don’t judge but thats all you are doing!
statements such as “I’m not going to teach my children homosexuality is normal” is judging someone by their sexuality
I dont care if you fuck boys, girls, hippos it doesnt make you less of a person
your being a hypocrite!!!!!
Jane…just curious… why do you guys bother with her.
I realized 2 days after joining that she is an unhappy toxic poster who needs intensive therapy, she is a disgrace to my gender and specie.
You don’t have to answer but I read so many of you guys and you must all be getting grey hairs bothering with here!!! LOL
It says ‘DO NOT POKE THE PRIMATE’ for a reason!
LOL 😉
‘DO NOT POKE THE PRIMATE’ OMG
ahhh mcgayle i ahve nothing but <3 for you!!
i dont even know i think it is kinda funny to call her on her own shit.. im not pissed its funny if anything! i bet she is an organic scene kid lol
LOL …….. excuse me please Jane what does <3 mean? I am new to this language...sorry...I seen you do it before...
ahhhhhh…I gotcha…..she just seems to get so many riled up… I suppose it is fun to watch the primate fight for a banana every once in awhile….. morbid …..but fun I suppose LOL…much like the aristocracy used to visit weekly to the insane asylums for entertainment…??? 😉
ps. and yes I meant ‘poke’ in the duel sense…. there are some we do not want breeding….dems the rules…LOL
rotate <3 90 degrees counter-clockwise.
It’s a heart…or an icecream cone for 2.
I appreciate individual freedom of choice immensely! I think other people (especially government) should stay out of it. The majority of my bitches, when I’m not defending the underdog, complain about just that.
Not teaching my children gay is normal is no attack on any person’s sexuality. It’s reinforcement of my own values onto my children… also known as PARENTING. Some people teach their children that piece of skin on their dicks is sinful. I teach my kids how to give us grand children and propagate the species. How far out of the box should one be to do that? Maybe we should ask Darwin how those traits get passed on.
Considering I support freedom of individual choice and I don’t care how you do “business” in the bedroom nor with whom why do I have to know about it let alone support a gay lifestyle to be considered a decent heterosexual being upholding individual values without hypocrisy? One would think the bitches would acknowledge the courage it takes to resist a social trend; homosexuals, best of all! They (you?) do it all the time and bitches praise them for it!
mcgayle, go take a twelve step walk off an eleven step pier and snap it up, would ya? You’re pretty new around here and yet in the top 5. Soon enough you’ll get painted with some brush full of shit and surpass my status of bitch extraordinaire. The shit around here sticks so good luck controlling everyone and everything. YOUR comments give me great pleasure… great entertainment like what Jane is talking about.
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh….gotcha Jane……..LOL….
Thanks Miles….I was trying to think it was a handshake of some sort…dang I have so much to learn ……so little time….
mcgayle, even the nastiest of bitches expect you to contribute to the OP or to the discussion. Go chat on MSN or facebook if you have nothing to contribute.
kay – I have a message from the old guard:
We were posting here long, long before your first “i heart desi” flame war, so I wouldn’t go around calling out newbies if I were you. Despite your thousands of comments, to me you’ll always be that noob, kay.
Sit DOWN.
qwerty, maybe you should contribute something to the post, huh? If anything you should be having a good giggle over my “twelve step walk off an eleven step pier” suggestion.
I admit – I giggled. I always giggle.
But noob bashing is stupid. There are people who have been here before you, and me, and everyone else. Just because they haven’t posted here much doesn’t mean they’re new to the internet or the ways of wesite commentating. They’re just new to you.
Q, I find your post apropos given the title of the thread and that poster’s behaviour…. thank you ! 🙂
I mean….. Thank you ;(
Sorry, I take offense when the noob encourages the cattle to not bitch on LTWWB.
“That poster” (aka ‘bitch extraordinaire’ hehe) doesn’t come to LTWWB looking for “respectable behavior.” Why would you, mcgayle? You should go find a “love how sun shines outta my butt” blog.
We’s bitches ‘ere and SO ARE YOU!
We gotta sic Fat on mcgayle for a few weeks. There’s nothing that guy won’t say to piss people off and he’s loved by all. Let’s break mcgayle in proper risking she blows a gasket when her head swells.
Kay, don’t you think it would be more useful to teach children to accept people for who they are, rather than teach them to see gay people as weird or wrong?
You obviously don’t have any close gay friends if you think that homosexuality is a “choice”. My brother is a wonderful, well-adjusted, contributing member of society – now. But when he was a young man coming to terms with his sexuality – yes, he’s gay – it was a completely different story.
It breaks my heart to think that he contemplated suicide. It makes me cry to think that he believed he would be better off dead than gay. It kills me that he thought his friends and family would no longer love him because he prefers men to women.
Believe me Kay, being gay is not his “choice”. He’s now a happy, healthy 30-something in a committed, loving relationship, and for that I am eternally grateful. But 12 years ago, he would have traded anything in the world to not be gay
Blows a gasket, you say.
Thing is, you’re not all about the bitching, Kay. Every time there is a thread involving homosexuality or anything else that offends your delicate morals, you make it all about you and your self-righteousness. You may consider it “bitching” but it’s more like a sad wrestling match between grunting idiots.
But I’ve thought about it, and you know, I really don’t want you to leave. It’s too funny. Not the things you post, which are the equivalent of a rusty nail through the foot. It’s how people respond. Not the outrage, but the fucking hilarious comebacks. Scoobster?? Where are you?
I agree with qwerty about the “noob” bashing. So 2002. What’s it gonna be next, are you going to jump on every bitch and try to be “FIRST!!!11”?
Kay, saying that being Gay is not normal is like saying having red hair is not normal. In fact, more people are gay than have red hair. Just because something is not the majority, does not mean it is abnormal. Red is a perfectly normal haircolour for humans and being gay is a perfectly normal sexual orientation for humans. Teaching your kids that something is not normal carries an implication that it is somehow wrong, or bad or defective and in the case of homosexuality and red hair, that’s simply not true. If you want to teach tolerance to your children, I hope you make the distinction between “not common” and “normal” clear.
Jennie, thanks for sharing that sad story. That was my point earlier, that so many teens are rejected by their fams, and society, and contemplate self harm and it is a shame. 🙁
Glad your bro did good.
I like redheads, Ann Margaret was hot. LOL.
Ahh kay “I who judge no one”. Gotta love it. I judge people all the time and if one is honest with themselves, they would admit to the same thing. Someone who is agood judgeof things usually is able to stayout of shit, or at least the harbour.
Is it wrong to teach male gay sex as 100% ineffective, often harmful and undesirable in the way of producing grandchildren? That’s a fact as much as it bothers some people but am I wrong for teaching it to my (so far, hetero) children? I also teach we are to treat our neighbors as we’d like to be treated… with respect. I also instill a personal value… the pursuit of all things truthful, especially within ourselves, our bodies and our minds.
You know, some people tell their kids the stove it hot and it burns. Other parents are comfortable knowing the kid will learn it’s hot once they are fool enough touch it. Sometimes, if we leave the message as “the stove is hot” without elaboration then nobody has to get any ideas about how hot it burns. I don’t think I should be influencing my children toward a future that would see the family tree simply end, rather, toward one that would see it flourish. Am I wrong for that too?
And for the record, I think we could go on all day defining ‘normal’ and will still have to come back to our (procreating Darwinian) animal nature to guide us in our thinking. (some would say born with a cleft pallet is also ‘normal’ since he was ‘born that way’ but it’s an anomaly, isn’t it?) Since there’s no gay gene that we know of I stand up for your personal freedom to choose but it’s just that. A personal choice. Go fuck and be merry. Just don’t be teaching my kids your choices should be considered ‘normal’ or that I’m harming my children by instilling my own values, which include tolerance (which is different from embracing a concept).
We’re products of our environment and personal desire. I’m sure until I’ve produced a gay child or they identify a some gene that renders reproductive ‘fluids’ unnecessary in a living being I’ll never believe it’s a genetic quality.
What if you’re left handed with red hair?
And in an interracial relationship.
And kay unless a hell of a lot more people “turn gay”, I don’t think we have to worry about the human race is going to become extinct any time soon.
I hardly care about the species as a whole when trying to build my family tree.
Keep tryin’… I’m no racist and I’m not a hypocrite either
“male gay sex as 100% ineffective”
Kay, most of the sex any of us will ever have is not for means of procreation, it’s simply for pleasure. Most people who choose to have children will only have a couple, but I’m willing to guess they’re aren’t too many people who are only going to have sex those 2.2 times.
Since the vast majority of sex anyone has is simply for pleasure, how can you possibly say it’s ineffective???
touche.
jennie, “male gay sex as 100% ineffective… in the way of producing grandchildren” is what I wrote. Argue with that.
What about heterosexual couples who have no desire to produce children, then grandchildren? Do you teach your kids that these couples are abnormal too?
Until you have even a basis understanding of cellular/molecular biology you cannot understand this as a genetic issue.
Good news for all of you who failed grade 7-9 science..:
SUMMER SCHOOL IS IN!
Kay, my point wasn’t really to debate the semantics of “normal” but to point out the inappropriate negative implications the word can have, especially when influencing the opinions of children.
Anyway, if you cared enough to look into it, you would realize that the evidence suggests homosexuality is a genetic-based trait, typically not a chosen one. Just because the gene(s) haven’t been identified, does not mean they don’t exist.
Also, you may want to look into some of the recent studies that suggest the evolutionary advantage to homosexuality is that the female siblings of gay men tend to be more fertile…thus allowing the homosexual genes (and other familial genes) to be passed to subsequent generations.
Or, you can continue to hold whatever beliefs you care to whether they are substantiated by evidence or not. I don’t really care because I’m a tolerant person 😉
mcgayle it is shameful to raise your kids in that manner. You should teach them to be and how to be loved no matter who it comes from man women animal whatever! but saying that being Gay is inncorect i am just lost for words about how closed minded you are to people. You are going to raise your kids being homofobic which is racist in my opion.
Kids have a hard enouph time now a days why make it worse? why pressure them? if they are gay your going to put them down and make them feel unloved which is unfair! like i said what people do behind closed doors is their business!
I think this “Another Bus Bitch” has missed the bus, or at the very least taken a detour. The original complaint was against a slutty drunk who made racist comments on a bus, how did we end up discussing gay rights issues?
kay
haha it stemed from another bitch on here about a gay dude in the office
yeah, i’d be happy to “go after” mcgayle. i love how feminists REALLY know how to party 😉
but really, when mcgayle first arrived i thought she was a dude. should i sick her now? 😛
Try having olive-to-dark skin and a vaguely Muslim-sounding name in Calgary, kay, just try. Despite the fact that there are 10s of thousands fitting that description, you’ll still feel like the only one in the room, I promise. Alberta’s reputation as the most redneck province in the country is well-deserved.
As noted above you don’t hear much racism toward Black people in the West, because there are so few. There are of course exceptions: http://www.cbc.ca/canada/british-columbia/…
Middle Easterners and Asians see plenty. Aboriginals suffer it worst of all, despite what you seem to think. That’s why they die so young; the whole system is stacked against them.
Jammie is Muslim-sounding?
Also, remember that Kay grew up in Calgary. There was tons of racism in the town I grew up in as well, but I didn’t notice it when I was a kid. I also didn’t notice how poor I was or how craptastic my town was. I was just a happy kid playing in my dirt-pile. It’s funny how you pay attention to different things when you get older.
You wouldn’t remember, but waaaaaaaay back when I first started posting my name wasn’t Jammie – it was closer to (but not quite) my real name. Qwerty rebranded me poor wuddle Jammie wammie after we had our introductory tiff (she was a newbie basher once, you know 😉 ), and I got a kick out of it and made it permanent.
I find it very “convenient” that Kay has NEVER experienced racism anywhere other than Halifax.
Maybe it’s true, or maybe it’s just something she’s propagating to fit with her “Halifax is the worst place on earth” theory.
Actually I do remember your original moniker there Jammie. I thought it was a girl’s name at the time…like Shaniqua.
Yes I remember my gender identity crisis. My real name doesn’t end with a but I think the original nickname did and yes I guess that sounds female. That’s what I get for trying to combine first and last names.
I meant – My real name doesn’t end with “a”…
Jane you are mistaken…… I have not posted any homophobia…you must have misread…
I accept your apology in advance
Basil-guilty as charged……. too funny… man did this derail…..
wha did i put you?????
oh no! my bad
I didn’t say I’ve never experienced racism until NS. I didn’t see it at all in Calgary while hangin’ out with my native buddies on their homestead. I’ve seen it Toronto only I was the one feeling like the minority as I found myself the only white face in an Asian community mall. It was downright scary and nobody even looked at me strange. It made me realize where racism comes from.. there’s strength in numbers and a sense of community when among others of our “own kind”. I was able to avoid stereotypical/racist thinking as a result of that experience. Even in Toronto I didn’t witness aggression over race. That’s only revealed itself to me only since I’ve come here. Like it or lump it, that’s my experience.
And no, jennie, I’m not going to teach my children sex for pleasure is a bad thing but I will teach the fact that everything on the planet fucks so human beings have opportunity (responsibility?) to behave in greater-than-animal-instinct fashion in CHOOSING their partners.
Miles, I would speculate the female siblings of gay men tend to be more reproductive than others (if that’s true) because of an emphasis on their female role BECAUSE of greater than “normal” emphasis on sex-talk growing up. “The stove isn’t only hot, it’s…” (from the ‘gay dude in the office’ bitch)
LOL…no worries Jane….I was like….rut roh……
Jane either thought I was another poster or misread my intention….or I was not clear.
I actually believe homosexuality like heterosexuality are genetically based.
HOWEVER, having said that we often ignore when we should not the number of men and women who are homosexual from childhood sexual abuse that has nada to do with genetics.
I feel badly for this group as they will never know if they are ‘really’ gay…or acting our something psychological…only after much introspection will they know for sure. I know too many lesbians and gays men who are victims of child sexual abuse mostly committed by men and contribute their gaydom to those interruptions to early development (my words).
And while we are on it…..pedophilia behaviour IS not homosexual behaviour.
Kay, calgary is so racist it makes my stomach sick. I’ve never seen anything like it and I hope I never do again.
Guilty, jammie! Although, if I recall correctly, I mainly thought you were a chauvenistic bastard… after I was done thinking you were a gender traitor. Poor jammie wammie…
^Exactly, guyute. If it were, there’d be no hot blonde school teachers sleeping with teenage boys in the US and having kids with them!
Jane – after the gay guy left the office did he board the bus to Calgary with Kay in search of other gays who may or may not have victims of racism and sworn at by a drunken slut?
Maybe he got on the bus to avoid mcgayle?
hehehe qwerty i think i launched my bitch career with an informed, eloquent and bullet-proof presentation of the parroted works of dr. phil regarding overweight women hating on thin women as a means of denying their own responsibility for their weight and self-esteem problems. it made me instantly popular. my fan base continues to grow.
OMG I DID TOO SORRY
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mcgayle it is shameful to raise your kids in that manner. You should teach them to be and how to be loved no matter who it comes from man women animal whatever! but saying that being Gay is inncorect i am just lost for words about how closed minded you are to people. You are going to raise your kids being homofobic which is racist in my opion.
Kids have a hard enouph time now a days why make it worse? why pressure them? if they are gay your going to put them down and make them feel unloved which is unfair! like i said what people do behind closed doors is their business!
it did it agian!!!
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K-A-Y -> it is shameful to raise your kids in that manner. You should teach them to be and how to be loved no matter who it comes from man women animal whatever! but saying that being Gay is inncorect i am just lost for words about how closed minded you are to people. You are going to raise your kids being homofobic which is racist in my opion.
Kids have a hard enouph time now a days why make it worse? why pressure them? if they are gay your going to put them down and make them feel unloved which is unfair! like i said what people do behind closed doors is their business!
LOL…..Jane I know it was an honest mistake… no worries..I was like…….. dang ……I did not even say anything..bad enough I get in trouble for what I do post!
<3
hahaah look at you using the <3!!!!!
i know well it weas obviously to Kay haha your in the good
Kay, I missed your last post until now…
Your story about Toronto is funny because I had the same experience in Vancouver as a teenager and it had a similar impact on me and my understanding of racism and it’s causes.
Also, I don’t think your speculation makes much sense to me, partly because I would also speculate that historically, very few households with gay sons would be having more “sex-talk”. Instead, as the studies suggest, the genetics that contribute to male homosexuality might be linked to the female fertility. But, like I said, if you are interested, then you can check out the studies yourself. I was just putting that out there for ya.
Wow ..what a bunch of douchbags. If you actually spent the same amount of time you do with defending homosexuality, to try to eliminate racism in your red neck province, maybe you will actually have some useful results by now.
PS: hey Kay, hahahaa I think you touched a deep wound that’s why they are deeply upset
Hey Ace Boogie i got 8 hours to sit in front of a comp and “work” i have all the time for this
Jane ignore that…It is based on assumptions..prolly even a double nick…. who else would find worth in that poster….
I work from home too and come here for a ‘mental’ break….LMAO..
I encourages me to work harder to keep ahead of the primates 😉
Nothing like a lil incentive to not want my brain to rot!
Ace Boogie, I think it’s rather presumptuous of you to assume that those of us here defending homosexuals don’t do the same when it comes to anyone experiencing prejudice. I’ve been involved in social activism most of my life, defending human rights and promoting awareness and tolerance of gays, women, and people of all ethnicities. I’m also one half of an interracial couple, so I’ve seen my share of racist attitudes, and frankly, I don’t think NS is any worse, or any better, than anywhere else.
I bet on anything that acts such as this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MAJ3amqyVuE
happen to African Nova Scotians all the time. Just walk around and ask any black guy/girl living in the valley.
Happy Canada Day
Miles, “historically” gays were strung up the moment anybody learned about them so methinks the data be lacking but I’ll check it out. Thanks
happy canada day? Ace Boogie your a little late
Kay-> ” gays were strung up the moment anybody learned about them”
Its true so why make it harder in the year 2009?
mcgayle -> you always have my back 🙂
Kay, That was kinda my point. If you know you will not be accepted you are not likely to come out in front of your family and that family is unlikely to have had the kind of gay-inducing conversations you are so worried about. Sheesh. There aren’t more homosexuals per capita today then there was at any other time, it’s just that homosexuals today are more free to be open about it.
how about showing your kids how to be accepted for what they are? and to accept people for who THEY are?
wow sounds liek common courtesy
Oi Jane Duhh, obviously you haven’t checked the youtube video link and noticed that the video was taken 3 days after Canada day, so to make it more simple for your brain, I was being sarcastic with my “Happy Canada Day” comment, especially to the black person in the video.
Yes, Ace, you did a fabulous job of illustrating how Nova Scotia is the most racist place in Canada by posting a video of racial violence in BC. Way to undermine your own opinion, genius.
mcgayle, “who else would find worth in that poster” WTF? You’re a real piece of shit, aren’t you?
Just for the record, I think people are way too concerned about what other people do/think/say/feel. I’m not sure my God is going to tap mcgayle, mom or friend on the shoulder and ask if I’m a good person who belongs in heaven. Following man’s law is a must for survival. But living to please your neighbour, your mom, your friend.. whoa! I’ve got way more important things to do with my life… like work on my own “energy” and manage my own “karma”. Everybody wins. Everybody gets to be “themselves” in my world but they also get to be truthful about who that is.
This thread made my brain explode 🙁
Kay, you ARE a hypocrite. You might not be “racist,” but you are FAR from “educated.” You took a perfectly fine thread about a guy who just wanted another guy in his office to leave him alone to your personal soap box on how you hate “homosexuality.” Because they engage in anal sex, from what I could gather…nevermind the fact that hetro couples also engage in anal sex. But whatever. Your “educated” mindset is so hateful and biased that i really don’t think anyone can really reason with you.
Basically, guys, it’s futile to fight with kay. Just ignore her. If we ignore her long enough, I’m sure she’ll go away. Please, guys? PLEASE? I mean we all know she’s kind of a fucktard…so why bother with her?
its because we all want to read whatever dumb retort she’s going to write next. kind of like howard stern but with no fans or audience.
I love kay. I really do. She’s my little Furby.
Dino I hope you’re just like kay when you’re her age in 30 or 40 years.
I DJ so you can marry me and brag about your “superstar DJ husband” while reminding everyone that they’re wrong and you’re right! 😀
very fun Kay
you made this thread what it is with your sterotypes
what’s extra funny is that “homosexuality” has been around since …. well, forever.
it was only in recent centuries that we applied the labels “homo”, “hetero”, “bi” to sexuality so that some groups could disassociate from others and make it seem like there’s an actual “difference” between humans.
just kay and her stupid labels.
Hey meow, actually NS has the same problem too, the difference is, BC residents are civilized enough to use cameras. Ok seriously, read more about hate crime incidents in NS, you even have racial issues against black fire fighters, freaking fire fighters for god’s sake, how low can you get. Anyway, you need to read more instead of spending time molesting cats.
kay said retarded…its leotared/kaytarded
pretty kitty for mayor!
Leave Kay alone. She needs space to work on her “energy.”
Ace, take your own advice and read the post prior to your tragic but useless youtube link. If your reading comprehension skills are at all adequate, you’ll understand that I’m well acquainted with race issues in Nova Scotia, and unlike you, I’ve actually gone so far as to attempt to better the society I live in, rather than just bitching about it on the internet.
Additionally, I don’t consider standing back and operating a camcorder while a guy gets jumped by three dudes yelling racial slurs to be the most “civilized” course of action one could take. If you do, then maybe you should look in the mirror before blaming others for not combatting race issues here in this province.
Awww, mcgayle *blush*
gag
choking on your own hypocrisy, kay, or do you just have a hairball?
kay has a gag reflex??
Dude, seriously, I just assumed you cured yourself of that when you were 13 and used to take your retarded but well-endowed older cousin Billy-Bob out behind the woodshed to teach him about “energies”, how not to get cancer, how to be kind, loving and non-judgmental, and how to treat a nice, feminine militant chain-smoking Alberta girl (not one of those butchy Nova Scotians) like a lady.
oh snap!
I dont know why, but “like a lady” sprung Mrs Doubtfire to mind… Ohh Like a Lady!!!!
haha awesome!!!!
i was doing a “thats so Raven”
Oh snap haha
Kay, please explain to me why I would choose to make my life more difficult? Explain to me why I would put myself through the painful experience of coming out to my family, and my elderly parents? Why would I make the choice to be subject to ridicule, discrimination, and ignorant intolerance?
Like most people, I wouldn’t.
Rest assured knowing that you’re teaching your children bullshit, and they will grow up to be as ignorant and intolerant as you.
And I hope they all turn out to be 100% gay.
Agree 100% with you Gman, although I would not wish anything on anyones children… They’re off limits…
Fair enough, LOGiC, though in retrospect, I wasn’t wishing anything on her children so much as a “forced life lesson” on Kay herself.
Can we say “gut-check moment”??
Damn, I didn’t mean to miss such a good thread!! Sorry I’m late… but I have a good excuse; I was in Halifax for a week! The first time I’ve been there in 4 years!!!
Anyway, I wonder if Kay ever gives her rockstar husband oral sex- a thing which SOME people think of as dirty (I’m guessing no, and that she does it with the lights off, and only when she’s ovulating). Kay, the point at which YOU draw the line between “dirty” and “clean” when it comes to your sex life is NOT the same for everybody else!!!
And while I’m at it, I’d say the odds of catching a venereal disease from a gay man are probably much, much LESS than the odds of catching it from some Haligonian “rock star” whose wife won’t put out unless she’s trying to get pregnant!
Dont get me wrong Gman, I would pay to see the look on her face when that bomb was dropped, but in the words of a wise man “not that there’s anything wrong with that”
For the record (1) it takes a lot to trigger my gag reflex and (2) I’d never bother with a Haligonian “rock star”, I’d guess there’s is no such thing… not really. Haven’t seen one on the scene yet and if you think the likes of Sam Moon or Charlie A’Court is all that, well… whatever. Back under a rock with you.
I’d like you all to take a walk down to the harbour and imagine the bacteria count concentrated on the “floatables” versus the rest of the water then do the math against your immune system. Enjoy yourselves.
Does one have to be gay to be sensual and enjoy good sex? I think not.
Jam-man is on FIRE.
Although I feel the best adjective for Alberta ladies is generic. They all look the same, they all have the same hair – died yellow and dry as all f*ck – and though many are skinny with big, fake boobs, their bums are flat as weird little pancakes. Plus, crater holes where their face should be. It’s not good.
– “For the record (1) it takes a lot to trigger my gag reflex”
Kaytarded Cousin Billy agrees wholeheartedly.
– “Does one have to be gay to be sensual and enjoy good sex? I think not.”
Kaytarded Cousin Billy agrees wholeheartedly.
Umm no Kay, I don’t think there are any rockstars in Halifax, hence my use of quotations around the word “rockstar”. And nowhere did I suggest that in order to be sensual, one had to be gay; read it again. My point was there are some people out there who think what YOU do in the privacy of your bedroom is revolting and dirty.
Like I said before, you are like a fictionalized charecter- written by some ageing, shitty girly-book author like Maeve Binchy.
Kay’s probably Joel Plaskett’s trashy ex.
NOT
kay, I really hope someday a gay person doesn’t un-wittingly mistake you for his (or her) friend- because eventually he or she will be humiliated after discovering that you judge him not for the type of person he is, but for who he falls in love with and the way he achieves orgasm. You disgust me.
Wow, I missed a good one.
Kay, you’re setting yourself up to ruin your childrens lives by telling them certain things are normal and abnormal. What happens when you have a gay child? Or maybe your daughter gets in an accident and can never have children?
Geeze, my children are healthy and they’re not gay. I wonder why? Must have something to do with the PARENTING, huh? There are a few homosexuals in my circle but I don’t go out of my way to make them uncomfortable or otherwise. Who am I to judge? I don’t need to live their life. I don’t even have to watch. I take what I like and discard the rest as we all do in our social interactions.
What infertility has to do with this discussion is beyond me, PAS.
actually, WTF homosexuality has to do with the what the OP is talking about ?
It came from another thread.
Loving your avatar, kay. A literal, visual representation of your muffin top? Or a metaphor for your boring-as-bran personality?
Infertility has to do with the fact that you’re saying homosexuality is abnormal because they can’t reproduce. So if you daughter had an accident and could no longer reproduce, you’d consider her abnormal, or at least she would think you would, since you’ve been telling her all her life that that’s what’s wrong with homosexuals.
And no amount of awesome parenting can keep a child from being gay, or from getting sick.
well PAS, you said it… People Are Stupid. Indeed. I’m not going to list another 101 reasons for ya nor bother to correct your idiot conclusion. You can just hold on to that nugget if it makes you feel any better. Ever wonder why we put blinders on a horse? Whatever.
I’ve been described as a lot of things… “boring”? That’s a first. LOL
“Who am I to judge”? Unfortunately, that’s all you seem to do, kay. As for there being a few gays in your circle…hahaha! BULLSHIT.
I bet you were alot more tolerable a person when you were stumbling down skid row with your mascara smeared down your face and filth-covered clothes, looking for any guy who’d let you blow him in exchange for some crack.
Having a bad day Scoob? Keep that up and you’ll have the bitches feeling sorry for me.
Having an opinion is different from acting on one.
Oh yeah, you’re SUCH a good person because you don’t ACT on your gross opinions. How grateful we must all be. Wow. And no, I’m not having a bad day; I just hate you is all.
You remind me exactly of my high school boyfriend’s pentecostal mother who regularly spoke “in tounges” when overcome by her love for the lord. All the things she said, you say here, word for word. She hated gays as well, thought it was nothing more than a ‘lifestyle choice’ and told me that my gay cousin who committed suicide because he was gay (go figure, killing himself for a ‘lifestyle choice’ he ‘voluntarily’ made!) went to hell.
WOW i missed some great points
” “For the record (1) it takes a lot to trigger my gag reflex” Kaytarded Cousin Billy agrees wholeheartedly.”
Well that was awesome!
Also i have to agree with people are stupid because everyone should be treated equal gay or not gay! its 2009 people
SD just remember not all religious people are anti-gay no more than all non-religipus are pro-gay. Biases transcend religious, ethnic, race, etc backgrounds. I’ve seen young non-religious people spouting off anti-gay remarks and seen older people quite tolerant. Ignorant is ignorant. To me let adults love or have sex with other adults as long as it’s consenual and not force it upon anyone else. Trudeau had at least one thing right about government (or anyone else, my words) not having any business about what goes on in bedrooms of Canada.
Tim, gay pride parades don’t happen behind closed doors.
For the record, I’ve never played a religion card to back my opinion.
Drug addicts, alcoholics and sky divers kill themselves every day over their own lifestyle decisions. This is not a novel concept preserved special for the gays in the community.
Scoob, go ahead and revel in hate. It looks REAL good on ya. Your shit attitude is part of what makes this hole so fuckin’ charming. Fuck you very much. Have a shitty day.
I fail to see how not embracing ass fucking as a daily thing a “gross” opinion. You people…
If my mother spoke in tongues I probably would have turned out more than gay… see a connection there, Scoobster? Just a little food for thought.
Kay-
Gay pride parades occur because the gay community has historically had to struggle for acceptance within wider society. They occur because to be gay and saying out loud “I’m gay, and I don’t have to be ashamed of it” is pretty special for the gay community in a way that it would never be special for straights. You don’t see a straight pride parade because many gays live their lives in a 24 hour a day, 365 days a year straight pride parade. You’re part of it on this board, in fact you seem to have the biggest, fanciest float. Why, gays only received the right to marry in Canada just a few years ago. In some places in the world, the sentence for being gay is death. So in fact, pride parades have very little to do with “I think being gay is better than being straight and everyone should be gay therefore let’s have a parade.”
But I wouldn’t expect you to understand that.
I understand the political movement of gay pride parades. It’s explaining their motives to my kids that gets on my nerves.
Drug addiction and alcoholism are lifestyle choices now??
Man, I’m so confused.
Bro Tim, I said that Kay reminded me of my ex’s mom who happened to be religious, not religuos people in general. My mom is a devout catholic, but even she believes that being gay is a trait you’re born with- not something you choose to be trendy and cool, and when she chose a church, she made sure it was one where gays are welcome. Nevertheless, you have to admit, there are a fair amount of religious people who condemn gayness.
Jammie, where did anyone say drinking and drug addiction are lifestyle choices?? No, addiction isn’t a choice, but it’s sometimes be a bi-product of drinking or doing drugs, which are definetly lifestyle choices.
And…what does this have to do with being gay??
Absolutely nothing.
If it feels good, do it. That goes for gays, drugs, booze and smokes.
gay pride week
july 18-26
LOOK OUT KAY!!!
Scooby – just to clarify, kay said those things, not me. She described drug addiction, alcoholism, and skydiving as lifestyle choices that can result in death – comparing those to suicides among homosexuals, if you can believe it. I was contrasting the drug and alcohol comments with those she made in another thread about addictions being health conditions (as opposed to choices).