Is there such a thing as public decency laws with respect to the way people dress? Young women should tone it down (a lot) and men need to wear shirts. Hems should be lowered to below the knee again. —Don’t Care How Hot it is Outside
This article appears in Jun 30 – Jul 6, 2011.


No… please keep your shirts off men!!! I like it. I like it alot. Also, I feel like you are uncomfortable with your body thus putting your issues onto others. Relax.
Grandma? Is that you again?
Aw, go ride yourself, Ayatollah Qoqqahola.
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yes it’s all very funny….I’d love to see decency laws put into effect….what a wonderful change society would go through…women wouldn’t look like prostitutes and men would look respectful again….bring back the 50’s
men without shirts is only nice if they have a nice body but I have to agree – I do not appreciate that short shorts are back. I don’t want to see the jiggly diggly going on back there so I try not to look but it’s difficult given the lack of clothing on many of these teenies…and pre teenies.
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oh gawd, i have the theme song stuck in my head
Not sure if trolling… And my personal opinion is that booty shorts are awesome. Exhibit A: http://zenmangas.fr/produits_miniatures/bl… Exhibit B: http://hirvine.com/wordpress/wp-content/up… (Yes, they’re both anime characters, but think of all the sexy, sexy cosplay. :P)
Aw, wear a fucking blindfold, OP. And what’s this shit about skirts below the knees? You sound like a fucking ‘damn-them-to-hell-and-beyond’ Sister of (No) Charity, the nastiest set of penguins to ever rule the Roman Catholic school system in ancient Halifax. A yardstick to your rump, missie, and you can stuff that Papist hem-lengthening doctrine right up your hairy lasso.
ohoh, i think you have more royalties coming your way sweet thang^^perhaps we should dress like this, she looks really happy http://image.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardia…
It’s a free fucking country go live in Afghanistan you freedom hater!!
Who wants to make a bet this person secretly calls boobs “dirtypillows?”
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Just keep your eyes to the ground, bitch.
i thought people did that anyway mel, what with the tweeking and facefarting
no, let’s have a totaly nude society here. at least it would cut doown on some crimes like peeping, sexual assaults(maybe), and robbery, where would you carry your gun, with no pockets.
i kid you, of course, too many narrow minded people here for a nude lifestyle. but think of the possibilities there. and then we would have horny guys like me, walking around, with an eternal hard on.
hey o.p., may i suggest you start weaing a burkah.
Well, you could always move to Lancaster, Pa.
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Short skirts are good.
Quit harshing on my buzz OP…
Thanks 195 >; )
OP, just wait until people start hitting the beaches. Then you’ll see a lot of unfit people…..men with breasts, and women with breast on their backs. No, those aren’t beached walruses or seals.
Hahaha you’re welcome, my liege.
They’re gay people, seb.
I watched Pleasantville last night and I couldn’t help but think of this bitch….
we live in a depraved society…burkahs might be a good idea….pendulums do swing from one extreme to another….and how does semi nudity equate with freedom???
OP beeatch, “how does semi nudity equate with freedom???” It in and of itself doesn’t but being allowed to dress like that if you wish is. You have the freedom to choose if you want to dress like a slut muffin.
well there needs to be a little less “freedom” then and more decency
Get a life OP
There’s little corellation between the 2 things ,op beeatch. In fact, human societies that have opted for order (or decency) over anarchy (or licentiousness) have frequently found the “cure” much, much worse than the “disease”. Like any self-respecting right-wing curmudgeon, I too , bemoan our continuing devolution into a tribe of tree-swinging, crap-throwers (or urban baboons, if you prefer). Unlike many, I don’t for one minute beleive that the state has the power to arrest this decline, or should have the authority to attempt it. In fact, the prospect fills me with only slightly less horror than that of a Federal N.D.P. government. And for much the same reason.
Survey says: you’re a prude
this of course is all done in the name of commerce and selling sex….it’s not so much about sex as it is about money….it’s certainly not about staying cool because the majority of the female and male prostitutes (that is what they are un beknownst to themselves)dress like this year round….
You sound bitter
maybe Lucy you should start charging a nickle for analyzing people…don’t try to figure me out…I have my own beliefs and they just happen to be righteous
Nothing wrong with having beliefs. There is a lot wrong with pushing them on others. We don’t have to dress or act a certain way just because you believe we should. If you believe that, then your beliefs are far from righteous, freedom hater.
It’s hot here??? You coulda fuckin’ fooled me!!! Where’s the heat? Where’s the humidity? Having lived in provinces that experience real hot weather, I can tell you with conviction that this ain’t it. That being said, bring on the scantily clad hotties. The drudgery of winter looms quickly on the horizon.
you said it sister…i hate socks
If you and your significant other wear the same brand, style and colour of socks…would that make you a “same-socks couple”? 😀
(sorry, couldn’t resist)
Too cute avast0:)
I hates me some socks too sis, but less so on minus double-digit days.
Darned socks! …(Get it? “Darned”? huh?)
Ok, I’m shutting up now
how can i keep losing socks if i don’t have a dryer? riddle me that
Isn’t there a court case going on in Ontario where a man has been charged with public indecency for going thru drive-thrus stark naked?
His lawyers are claiming the laws in Ontario concerning public nudity are archaic and those laws may be struck down depending on the judge’s ruling. Which could set a precedent.
Buckle up OP,you could be in for a bumpy ride.
Yes, troon, Apparently he went through an A & W and a Timmies drive thru in the same day wearing nothing but a smile. Apparently the laws are so out of whack, someone could potentially be charged for being naked in their own home if someone can see it. Should be interesting to hear how this one goes.
Short slutty shorts, burkhas…just because I wouldn’t be caught dead in either of these things doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate that I live in a society where people are allowed to wear them. I’m glad we’re not all walking around in a uniform of white Ralph Lauren shirts and pleated black pants; how boring would that be.
-.- move to the country if you don’t like the people,
but then again.. I suppose all the animals you encounter will be completely naked, … heaven forbid ! At least you could enforce your idea there and knit them all skirts with the hem below the knee for the females, and shirts for all the males.
But that would be just as stupid as expecting it from people, especially in the summer.
Its hot, we all have a body, get over yourself.
when i first moved in here, twas just i. and i would doff all my duds after getting off work and showering. just being natural is where it is at. then my neice showed up with her stuff and asked to share the place. things were a little warm for awhile, but got along. i started getting warmer as summer came to a head, and told her that either we were getting air units, or i was gonna strip. well it took almost 2 months to get them, and i did my thing, and she did hers. although not totally bare assed, close to it.
and then i got sucked into a union with the gf from hell rejection, satan kicked her out, she found me, had good head for awhile, then things really started to get crazy. finally tossed her and shit out.almost went back the way it was. but there was something missing. oh yeah, the thrill of walking semi nude in your own fucking castle.
anyway, things changed, got the air units in, mostly clothed now, just the shorts, year round inside. rosie my sweet was here, and she saw how i was dressed. right baby. and by the by, how is you sweet thang, we never talk anymore.
and op beeatch, if you want to experience shit like i said, look me up. i’ll give you some encouragement, on what not to wear. a private session with the suckster. some would kill for that. have you a very deformed body that makes you want to hide it, no. then why don’t you come and chat with me on my private mail.
gary_450@hotmail.com
hmmmm …
a place where everyone wears the same clothes.
welcome to the island.
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THE CONCEPT OF DECENCY
“Decency, n. – Propriety of behaviour; what is required by good taste & delicacy; avoidance of undue exposure of person.” (The Concise Oxford Dictionary)
: Avasto (July 5, 1:52PM) – “Apparently he went through an A&W and a Timmie drive-thru in the same day wearing nothing but a smile.”
: “To hear then prepare of the Discipline rare
Which flourished in Athens of yore,
When Honour and Truth were in fashion with youth
And sobriety bloomed on our shore.”
Aristophanes -“The Birds”
“Cover Up” raises some interesting philosophical questions, the central one of course being, “What constitutes decency?” To say that it involves propriety, good taste, delicacy, and so on simply drives the question back one step since one has to define those terms. So where do we go from here?
There appears to be two views on the issue which spring from differing conceptions as to the nature of society. For the “naturalist” any restraints on freedom of expression constitute the crushing weight of an artificial conformism, an intolerable suppression of the expression of one’s individuality, in the present instance in the name of some anachronistic concept of “decency.” But are there limits to that freedom of expression and if so, on what grounds would the naturalist construct them? One wonders, for example, on what grounds Avasto would criticize the naked individual in the drive-thru at the A&W? Maybe she wouldn’t but then again maybe Avasto, like Arisophanes, is a cultural consevative.
By a stroke of luck I happen to have written a Master’s thesis on Aristophanes (“The Conservative Element in the Educational Thought of Aristophanes,” McGill University) which explored just this question. The quotation is from his “The Birds” – an attack (suprisingly from the present perspective since he is revered by all) on Socrates – and reflects his view that it was not some concept of “physis” (Nature) which was foundational to society but rather the “nomoi” (the Laws) – those cultural constructs which constituted the cement binding society together. Without such Laws regulating things like decency, for example, society would simply fly apart under the centrifugal forces of an unrestrained self-assertion. Socrates, for Aristophanes, was one of these naturalists. By his continual questioning aimed at the justification of one’s views, Socrates would undermine the foundations upon which Athenian society rested and, as a consequence, fully deserved his execution in 399BC for “the corruption of the young.”
So, what does constitute the concept of decency? Well, um, it all depends upon the way you view the relation of the individual and society…
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Phhhht. What an ultra-maroon. Everyone knows it was Hitchcock who directed “The Birds” Not Ari Stophanes. He had JFK whacked so he could marry Jackie. You really need to watch more T.V. Montrealman. You might actually learn something.
i didn’t know it was based on this short story http://covetablecovers.files.wordpress.com…
Yup. Daphne DuMaurier, who was married to Lt. General Frederick “Boy” Browning who was heavily connected with British Airborne Forces in WW2. It’s rumoured that she chose the maroon beret as the Paras’ distinctive headgear because she liked the color.
i less than three learning things *squack*
The screenplay was written by Salvatore Lombino, aka Evan Hunter, aka Ed McBain. He made mention or fun of The Birds and other of his works in some of his novels, especially his “87th Precinct” books.
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Did he make fun of it because he had some beef with Hitchcock?
McBain?
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sounds like I’ll have to check it out.
MontrealMan. “One wonders, for example, on what grounds Avasto would criticize the naked individual in the drive-thru at the A&W? Maybe she wouldn’t but then again maybe Avasto, like Arisophanes, is a cultural consevative.”
First, just for the record, I’m a male. (no worries. It’s impossible to tell just by reading a few words of text on a computer screen)
Secondly, I don’t think I would criticize the naked individual so much as maybe be shocked as complete public nudity in our present society is not readily accepted as “the norm”. And by “the norm”, I’m not questioning the individual’s mental or emotional state, I just mean it’s not something you see everyday. I’d probably even display some awkwardness and/or disgust because as a straight male, I’m not at all interested in seeing another man naked in public, particularly when there is no advance warning or expectation of seeing it. (which, I assume was the case with this fellow as he went through the drive thru’s.) For example, if I’m going to a gym and I go in the male locker room, I am fully aware of and expect the possibility of seeing a man/men in the nude. This is not an issue as, like I said, it’s to be expected, as it is typically a location where you would see such things. Seeing this guy in the drive thru wouldn’t really be an issue to me either other than the initial shock and not expecting to see a nude male as a drive thur is typically NOT a location where you would see such things.
In general, I have no problem with public nudity. I think the human body is a very natural and beautiful thing. I feel there is probably a time and place for it, if nothing else than for safety and hygiene. Would I go nude myself? No, for 2 reasons: 1) I am not comfortable with my own physical appearance. This is something I have and continue to work on. And; 2) In my present, chosen career path, it would definately be frowned upon as such displays would not represent my employer in a desireable manner. My employer has a public image to portray and all it’s employees are representative’s of this employer and as such, must conduct and portray themselves in a socially acceptable manner. Does that make me a cultural conservative? I don’t know.
Hey OP- Mind your own fucking business, take a look at your own fucked up wardrobe and let people wear whatever the hell they want. Jesus, some people!
It was so warm and humid in Toronto last month when I was there that I would’ve walked around naked if I could’ve.
It gets hot in the summer, and I’d rather be comfortable than give two shits about not offending your poor sensitive little eyes, OP.
If you don’t like my bare shoulders or shorter skirts, well that’s your fucking problem.
At least I wear a bra when i go strapless like SOME of the other train wrecks out there.
Invest in a good strapless bra, ladies. For the love of GOD.
nice kitteh not nice girl^^sports bras work well pretty kitty but i love talking it off when i get home
some explanation- the attractive people in society get to do this and it’s a beautiful thing…if you are a bigger type person….or defomed in some way…then well you’d goddammed well cover-up and stay inside preferably….you even said it yourselves in some of your replies….so it’s not a “free” society for everyone to dance through the daisies with there t&a’s hanging out….it’s only for the special ones that won’t be laughed at or derided or put down because they don’t meet someone’s ideal of perfection or beauty….I have man boobs and a slight stoop….would I take my shirt off in public??? Would you want me to? Riddle me this?
^^^ troll.
“if you are a bigger type person….or defomed in some way…then well you’d goddammed well cover-up and stay inside preferably” <-- proof.
no….you are taking that out of context…this is societies view….not mine….I should have put that in quotes
Ivan, I think Lombino/Hunter/McBain just enjoyed making fun of himself. In regards to “The Birds”, the fun was always poked at himself, not Hitchcock.
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: Avasto (July 6, 12:52PM) – Sorry for the gender error. I never seem to get them right. Anyway your reply, like the others, missed the point I was trying to make but sadly, I seem to have failed.
My point was that it is not a matter of personal reactions to the naked man in the drive-through or even to one’s own nudity. It was philosophical, i.e., the conflicting views regarding the justification -or the lack of it – of restricting behaviour based upon the concept of decency (in this particular case).
The philosophical Naturalist believes that all social constraints are artificial and have no legitimate force in determining behaviour. A more modern example would be Jean-Jacques Rousseau’s “noble savage,” one who lived in a “state of nature” before being corrupted, accordinbg to Rousseau, by oppressive social customs and traditions. The expression, “Do your own thing,” “Be true to yourself,” and so on reflect this philosophical position (at least superficially).
For a philosophical Social Conservative like Aristophanes, on the other hand, there is no such “state of nature,” no such substratum existing beyond or beneath society and upon which it rests. As a consequence, man is wholly constituted by his enveloping customs and traditions. (I used the term “Laws” as a translation of “nomoi” but the Athenians did not have our narrow legalistic concept of law. For them the term “nomoi” would have included precisely those customs and traditions which the Naturalist, the one appealing to “physis,” would have rejected.)
Yes, your views do make you a cultural conservative since your behaviour is directed not from within but from without. Nothing wrong with that. Society would collapse if we all lived in the “state of nature.” But the guy in the drive-through might have been directed by his “inner nature,” by the forces of “physis” as they exist prior to civilization. Too bad you didn’t get a chance to ask.
: Not a Nice Girl (2:10PM) – Like many others on this thread, she appears to be a cultural Naturalist – wear what you want or, if you prefer, nothing at all. But one wonders if she and the others would maintain their position if pressed.
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i kinda get what you mean m.m., about not an everyday observation, on the part of the servers. mankind has been held to the belief, that to go bare, goes against the norm, of today’s society. maybe so, but let’s look at some of the bush tribes, still in existance, around the world. remember the old national geographic mags? many a lad would beat theirself sily to them, or so i have heard.
the norm for most, is not the norm for all. there is a few select groups, that would go against that norm. the ducabours were one, haven’t heard about them in ages now. anyway, fact remains, we are now a society of pussies, and not the good kind.
if given a choice, how many here, really would just get rid of all clothiing, and go the bare lifestyle? be honest with yourself, before being honest with us. count me in as one of those bare lovers. clothing is mankinds glut on the world. remember this, naked we come to this world, clothed we out, but naked before god, we shall be judged. that is from the funny book called a bible. i remember that piece from yarins ago.
but as i stated, man has been held hostage, by the unthinking, closed minded society, that has spawned any that you think is good, is actually bad for you. chocolate comes to mind, but now, docs say it has all kinds of health benifits. wow, go figure.but this whole thing boils down to what is really natural, clothng, or bare skin? i would have to say the latter, over the former. but, i’m just a horny perv, at heart. flames on.
Aristophanes didn’t seem like he was a lot of laughs monsieur. If he were alive today, he would probably be one of those tea party candidates in the US of A.
We are all culturally conditioned to see nudity as something to be kept behind closed doors not right out in the open. It seems irrational that we don’t mind exposing some parts of our bodies (face, legs, feet, stomach, back and chest in the case of men) but the ass and groin, no way. Yet, that is the way people feel and the law reflects that.
The woman in the drive-thru felt uncomfortable seeing the man’s penis and the charges he faces are to protect her.
His argument is that he was in a natural state, the way we all are under our clothes, and the woman’s oversensitivity is her problem. In other words she is brainwashed to believe his naked body is ugly.
Clothing is a human invention, originally to protect the body from the elements. Then for fashion, status and modesty. The modesty part was driven by religious fundamentalism in all probability. This remains the underlying force to remain clothed.
This modesty from generations of conditioning is one thing in play here, the other thing is the hypersexualism caused by this repression, especially in western society. We view the body through a pornographic lens. The body should be young, firm and well endowed. We look at ourselves and we don’t measure up. It’s an impossible bar that’s been set. So a middle-aged person, male or female, with a weakness for the Cheetos has a body nobody wants to see.
I admit I am conditioned somewhat, not as repressed as OP but I certainly would not want to see my parents naked.
I guess I would be a philosophical naturalist, a clothing-optional society doesn’t bother me that much. There would be some challenges like the boner issue.
Maybe we could learn from the Bonobo chimps, one of homo sapiens closest relatives. When the group becomes agitated or stressed by disputes, they all start having sex with each other to relieve the pressure, so to speak. Make love not war. Sounds like a good idea to me.
well said troodon, they certainly are fascinating creatures http://www.olympicanimalsanctuary.org/imag…
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“BITCH” AS A MORALITY PLAY
: Life Sucks (July 6, 8:30PM) – Yes, Aristophanes would agree with you that “The norm for most is not the norm for all,” but he was concerned only with Athenian society and not with the others. (Forget the Bushmen.) But your post does reflect the strength of our own social mores, particularly in the case of public nudity or “decency” as it appears in the current context. Sucks, Aristophanes would have been proud of you.
: Troondonk (9:32PM) – The force of our cultural abhorrence of public nudity comes through loud and clear. Modesty (another term for “decency”) might have originated with religious fundamentalism – I suppose the idea was to restrict the practice of random copulation – but the fact is that it remains a powerful force in our own culture. Aristophanes would be pleased with you too, Troon. He might, however, have been perplexed by your claim that you might be a “philosophical naturalist.” The reason is not because of your laissez-faire take on public nudity since it seems to be more of an aesthetic than a moral consideration for you. It is because, according to Aristophanes, philosophical naturalism, if taken seriously, threatens the foundations of society.
Philosophy, in its continual inquiring into the nature of transcendental truth, holds custom and tradition at “arm’s length.” In other words, it “objectifies” culture, that which is taken for granted by the group. That is why Aristophanes was against it. He wasn’t just a grump but realized that philosophy worked as an anodyne on the body social, initially debilitating it and eventually destroying social cohesion. But “physis” or naturalism is not confined to philosophy. Think of the great artists and scientistst who were great by virtue of the fact that they “cast off the bonds of convention” to pursue their visions. Of course, also think of the criminal class who also embody “physis” in that they set themselves not just apart from society but actively against its received customs and traditions.
Some might think that the example of Aristophanes was so ancient as to be irrelevant, but not so. The current “nature/nurture” controversy – is man a product of his fundamental “nature” or, rather, is he a cultural construct, a product of “nurture?” – is still a live one.
But one doesn’t have to even go that far. The website “Bitch” itself can be seen as a morality play in which the Bitchers, who invariably pose a moral problem even if it is only at the level of etiquette, are held to account by what would have been the “chorus” in Athenian drama. The Bitchers might, but usually do not, receive the applause of the Commenters. On the contrary, they are often torn to bits. (All very Athenian.)
As a matter of interest I glanced at a few of the Bitches posted on Wednesday, July 6. The topics ranged from the (unusual) charge of the violation of the proper criteria of art (“Common Roadside Gallery”) to the (more common) outrages regarding driving etiquette (“Parking Etiquette,” “Circle Gets a Square,” “Circle Gets the Square”) and so on. The point is that Aristophanes’ views of the necessary role of custom and tradition in society are still very much with us and violators of our cultural norms will be swiftly brought to account. Sometimes I feel like giving the Commenters a round of applause as they rise up in righteous indignation against perceived violations of our “nomoi.”
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!