So you were having a big party and said your cousin was coming. This cousin was about my age and I wanted to meet him and see if we had anything in common, you know, maybe it might go somewhere. I asked you if he was single. You told me “Yes, but he’s out of your league.” Who says this to their friend! I figured the rest of you would tell off the party-throwing friend for saying such a horrible thing. But the rest of you basically said the same thing to me. Instead you want me to date this loser who plays video games all day and works in fast food. Fuck all of you, I’m finding better friends. —Totally floored by my ‘friends’
This article appears in Mar 24-30, 2011.
OP, so did the guy show up at the party? Was he hot? Was he what you would consider out of your league, or were the other girls just jealous they couldn’t bed him. Video games and fast food? Fuck that, dumb that loser too.
HOLY.
FUCKING.
SHIT.
… I actually fully agree with a sebastard post. That was actually a decent, supportive comment. To a woman, no less. And no mention of whether or not she’s fat. *blinksblankly* Too bad he couldn’t post like that ALL the time.
That shit’s gonna throw off the rest of my day. Thanks for that ya fucking ‘tard.
The saying “out of your league” is for high school where social hierarchy rules all. I agree with you OP thats so dumb, and there isn’t any reason you should be stuck with a “loser who plays video games all day and works in fast food” unless you really wanted to be (which clearly you don’t).
I dunno… I don’t see much wrong with video games…
and everyone needs to get a start somewhere.
if this kid is 16-17, he’s doing more than most trying to earn a buck.
Your ‘friends’ do sound like bitches… which leads me to believe (since you still called them friends) that this is a high school twat measuring competition.
How many times has this happened in the last couple of years on here ?
OB…there is a H U G E difference between FRIENDS & Acquaintances ! ! !
You need to learn the difference.
You now know (and so do all of us here)you have a bunch of acquaintances, in your life. Not that it is all bad, you just need to stop confusing the two!
Maybe someday you may actually find a friend. They are actually rarer than many people think, because they are also fooled into thinking an acquaintance is a friend.
It can’t be high school…who in high school has a career? They all work in fast food and retail. It’s probably University. Op – your friends sound like assholes. So you are an asshole too for being their friend…..walk away now
Honestly i’d be pretty happy if my friend told me a girl he knew was out of my league, saves me from making an arse out of myself with someone who i have no connection with.
Good friends tell you if you’ve got shit up your nose.
Anglo is right. I suspect your friend’s delivery was not the best, but I’d rather know. Perhaps her cousin is an uppity dick wad who considers anything lower than his “status” to be beneath him … could have been her way of steering you away from a douche bag. However, it’s up to you to make the call (which it seems you’ve already made) that they were being denigrating to you. Talk to her op. Don’t just throw away your friendship over a stupid comment, which I suspect was misinterpreted.
o.p., maybe the guy was, out of your league.l meaning that he wasn’t good enough to be seen with you. put a fucking reverse spin on it baby. don’t get all bent out of shape, because some little cum bucket said that to you.
fuck me, i’ve heard it said about me too. and you what i did and said, yeah, you are right folks. i’m better than her and the rest of you pieces of shit. have i ever talked to them again? yeah, i have, but told them i was busy, and would call back when free to talk to them, in about 50 years.
Anglo, if he was an ass, a friend would say so. THey wouldn’t tell you ‘ they’re out of your league’ … To me, that says you aren’t good enough, not that they are an ass.
A friend has concern for you, not someone you’re talking about even if they are ‘family’. After all, family is something you have no control over, you are related by blood or marriage ties.
Well yes that too i try to be open with my friends about most things, obviously worded in the correct way for diplomatic reasons.
straight up, fuck dem. If they are your real friends, then they should want you to meet their cousin. And if they are your real friends, they would want you to date the best guys for you. And what is wrong with them that they keep friends that they dont even want to introduce them to fam? thats fucken dumb, and i know this is corny but seriously, who needs enemies with freinds like those?