Your fiance should have left you years ago. I used to care, but I’ve stopped trying to encourage the split because he’s become spineless.
Recently I heard of a new development: you drawing up a contract outlining the need for him to be more Christian and have more God in his life, then asking him to sign it.
You alienate him from his friends, you make a budget for the money HE’S making, you make him drive across town for a certain type of fast food, you’re a pretentious bitch in general, and now this? A violation of his basic human rights?!
Surely this would be THE LINE for most men. For him? I can only hope.
You’re unreal, and you’re a nasty, bitter person. —Separating Myself From You
This article appears in Oct 21-27, 2010.


Sounds like a sociopath OB, has her hooks set and is isolating him.
You tried to warn him, didn’t work, so you’re best away from this.
Sounds like either BS or your friend is a spineless weenie. As for the rest, maybe his friends are idiots and assholes, maybe he can’t write up or live within a budget and a financial idiot (there’s lots of those out there), the FF place may have better food, a lot of people will change religions for the one they love (nothing new), and contracts between families and friends is not something new. It’s his life not yours.
Or your buddy has a closet-Arby’s addiction too.
you can tell these fools a million times, and do they listen, no fucking way. i had oppertunities to do that, and just got fed up after so many visits from the cops and this and that person, trying to help them. let them sink or swim, is the bes you can do. and if you try too hard, then they turn on you like a snake. and you wind up being the bad person. my advice, just fuck them all. let them live their fucked up little miserable lives.
Nothing worse than a crazy Christain cunt and a swinging Bible – if buddy is too spineless to tell this cow to go crucify herself, then he deserves what he gets.
there’s no saving a girly man!
Maybe the guy is a crack addict or alcoholic or problem gambler and maybe so are all his friends and he needs someone in his life to bust his ass and keep his no-good pals away from him while he gets straightened out.
OB’s a lesbian trying to snag the wife from dude.
This could easily be about a friend of mine and her fiance.. Except, he’s just as bad as she is. She bosses him around but he treats her like shit and he hardly looks after the kid they have together.
There are two sides to every story. Maybe he treats her as poorly as she seems to treat him.
Damn, that dude is pussy-whipped. Time for him to have a guy’s night out and ditch the wedding ring (it’s they’re married).
As the old anti-drug ad said (to “He Ain’t Heavy He’s My Brother” in the background), “You tried to stop your friend from using drugs, and it didn’t work, but hey, at least you tried. And that’s what friends are for.”
Same applies here.