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Butt for one thing

Q Have boyfriend. Several months. Love sex. First time we 69, I notice he has a little turtlehead sticking out. You get me? Second time, he has bits of toilet paper stuck in that area. CAN I ADDRESS THIS? And how do I do it without giving him a permanently flaccid penis? I love this […]

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Hear Gloria McCluskey say non-profit managers are “not real business people”

Yesterday, during Halifax council’s debate over what to do with the St. Pat’s-Alexandra school, councillor Gloria McCluskey suggested that the north end community groups lack business acumen and are “not real business people.” Listen to her comments here: The reality is that the North End Community Health Clinic and Mi’kmaq Friendship Centre have a long […]

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My teen is gay. Now what?

Q My 13-year-old son came out to us this morning. He plans to tell his brothers in the next few days. We love and accept our son, and this news isn’t surprising (but when will the stereotypical neatness kick in?), but we do have some concerns. He has, apparently, already made the news public at […]

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Washmill underpass celebrated

Federal defence minister Peter MacKay, provincial transportation minister Bill Estabrooks and Halifax mayor Peter Kelly held a “photo op” today to celebrate the opening of the Washmill Underpass into the Bayers Lake Industrial Park. The three probably have a dozen PR reps between them, and yet it was collectively decided that it was a good […]

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Monogamish relationships work

Why do most people assume that all non-monogamous relationships are destined to fail? Because we only hear about the ones that do. If a three-way or an affair was a factor in a breakup, we hear all about it. But we rarely hear from happy couples who aren’t monogamous, because they don’t want to be […]

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Best Films of 2011 Podcast

As a companion piece to the On Screen story in the January 5 issue of The Coast, this podcast gets Coast film critics Molly Segal and Matt Semansky to elaborate on their lists of the Best Films of 2011, offering a few titles that didn’t make it into print. Moderated by film editor Carsten Knox. […]

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Get a dog, lady, not a boyfriend

Q I am a 25-year-old gay man. I consider myself very gay-positive and self-accepting. Although I have always accepted my homosexuality and never really felt bad about it, recently I have been going through a hard time psychologically because I’m exposing myself to very graphic homophobic online content. There are blogs, online groups and websites […]

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Feeling guilty for having a “kink”

Q I’m a man who recently started seeing a wonderful woman. Like me, she’s divorced. While my ex-wife left me for another man, my girlfriend’s ex-husband was controlling and abusive. Our relationship is the opposite—emotionally, psychologically and sexually. Here’s the thing: His abusive behaviour is my kink—spanking. In all my past relationships, spanking was light, […]

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