I am kind, down-to-earth, professional, and attractive. Oh, and yes, a single father. Does the last thing really negate all the things before it? So much so that I can’t even get one date? Really? Not one interested woman? I have kids ladies, not small pox. I know that the idea of being in a long-term relationship with someone who already has kids is a hurdle. But love is love. Why not get to know the person before making any decisions? You never know, you might find that a package deal is a great deal! Or, just keep searching for Mr. Right at your local dive bar. I’m sure that will go well. —Stop Saying Where Are All The Good Men

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  1. I agree! Only change it from father to mother and woman to man, and so on and that’s me! So Please Stop Saying We’re All Crazy! 🙂

  2. Many women I know are happy to date someone with caretaking responsibilties. I’ve not known one woman who isn’t and I’m in my mid-40s. Nine friends of mine are involved with fathers that have children from previous relationships-Some of whom are special-needs. Two friends of mine are involved with partners that take care of infirm relatives. I’m not meaning to be dismissive, but perhaps you might want to choose different sorts of women to pursue or perhaps examine the possibility of there being other potential issues involved?

  3. just keep putting yourself out there and dont let the haters get you down. a good father is a good catch, the right person will see that.

  4. I don’t date single Dads because I never want kids, even if they’re someone else’s. It doesn’t mean I’m shallow, its one of the most important things in a relationship.

  5. I second what harrypotterbadactor has said. Its a really big and important part of a relationship. I won’t date single dads for the same reason. I never wanted kids. It doesn’t make me shallow and mean.

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