Tarce 
Member since Feb 25, 2009


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Re: “Say Something!

Hey everyone. I'm the person who originally posted this comment. I appreciate all your comments. Thanks for the feedback.

I completely agree with a lot of you that mention that it depends on the situation. I don't think we should always say something to others. We don't need to get confrontational if it's unsafe to do so. It's not worth it. I just mean that sometimes it's best to say something to others instead of holding in so much anger when it could have possibly been resolved with a quick comment or suggestion. A lot of times, others are clueless as to how they are pissing you off. If I was pissing someone off I would appreciate that they told me, in a NICE way, so I would have the chance to fix my behavior, or to let them know that they are over-reacting. I think that over time people would learn to take negative comments better and that they would lessen as people would start acting more respectful even if it's just in fear of someone telling them off.

The idea of asking someone if they don't mind smoking outside of the shelter is a lot less scary to me than thinking about the scenario all day long, replaying it in my mind with the 'what ifs' and being sooo full of anger that I have to write a letter to this bitch section. Holding in all that useless anger scares me.

I really wish that honesty wasn't so foreign to others. I also wish that people would realize that they have the power to fix a lot of these situations and that there is no need to feel so pissed off at the world. Why be so pissed off if you don't have to be right? I think it feels better to feel happy and free.

Anywho, thanks again for all your comments even if you don't agree with me.

Posted by Tarce on 02/25/2009 at 10:15 AM

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