When good kinks go away
I used to love getting bit and spanked but now that just hurts. What gives?
By DAN SAVAGE, Feb 24/21
Pandemic pressures
A frontline worker’s libido drop; guilt over a dying dad; discovering a kink.
Feb 17/21
How to parent a toy boy
The odds are low that your 16-year-old son is capable of sterilizing your dildo after use.
Relationship advice by DAN SAVAGE, Feb 10/21
4 relationship quickies
From being in the "pandemic sex recession" to refusing to leave the closet.
Sex advice by DAN SAVAGE, Feb 3/21
The boyfriend experience
Ranging from denying a partner’s pleasure, to partners trying too hard to please.
Relationship advice from DAN SAVAGE, Jan 27/21
Dan Savage says the case on HIV disclosure is closed for most people
But Canadians living with HIV can face prison if they do not disclose their status.
By DAN SAVAGE, Jan 20/21
Dan Savage says Cum again
Language luddites spat over word for jizz.
By DAN SAVAGE, Jan 14/21
European adventures
How can we have loud, complicated Euro sex when Covid means our kid is always home?
by DAN SAVAGE, Jan 6/21
Gay dream believer
A reader dreams of Andrew Rannells and isn’t sure why, so Dan asks Andrew Rannells.
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 16/20
The curious case of the come in the casserole
What kind of person would do that?
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 9/20
Losing out in love and spelling (and Winnipeg)
New partners, real regrets, too much cum.
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 3/20
Blocked
Finding ways to end things gracefully (or not).
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 27/20
Add it up
One app or two? One boyfriend or two? And three-, four-, ten- or hundredsomes?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 19/20
There’s something about threesomes. And foursomes.
Is it a heteronormative plot, or just logistics?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 16/20
This senior’s sex drive is just like old times
Holy pretzel! What in tarnation is happening?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 5/20
Dealing with an extremely jealous personality
Some people can be open with their partners about their pasts, but it’s not compulsory.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 29/20
Don’t give up
I’ve heard from countless people over the years who found something close to what they were looking for in their fifties, sixties and even seventies.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 25/20
Shocking discovery from beyond the grave
A reader needs help understanding—and forgiving.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 15/20
Trouble in the quad? Roger that.
What to do when you want to be more than “friends who have sex sometimes.”
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 1/20
How to handle missed connections
What to do when things go wrong with a friend, with an escort and with a Trump-loving mom.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 24/20
Taking it fast
When a new relationship goes from dating to meet-my-kid way too quickly.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 17/20
Why is choking even a thing?
Porn is probably to blame, but no choke: Strangulation during sex is dangerous.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 10/20
When divorce isn’t an option, try another d-word
You don’t need permission from anybody to think about sexual fantasy figures.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 3/20
It can be a tall order to reach a fantasy
But sometimes impossible fantasies are a way to avoid scary sex.
by DAN SAVAGE, Aug 27/20
Safety for size queens, '70s porn recommendations and more quickies
Ask a simple question about diaper play, get a simple answer.
by DAN SAVAGE, Aug 20/20
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