I used to love getting bit and spanked but now that just hurts. What gives?
By DAN SAVAGE, Feb 24/21
A frontline worker’s libido drop; guilt over a dying dad; discovering a kink.
Feb 17/21
The odds are low that your 16-year-old son is capable of sterilizing your dildo after use.
Relationship advice by DAN SAVAGE, Feb 10/21
From being in the "pandemic sex recession" to refusing to leave the closet.
Sex advice by DAN SAVAGE, Feb 3/21
Ranging from denying a partner’s pleasure, to partners trying too hard to please.
Relationship advice from DAN SAVAGE, Jan 27/21
But Canadians living with HIV can face prison if they do not disclose their status.
By DAN SAVAGE, Jan 20/21
Language luddites spat over word for jizz.
By DAN SAVAGE, Jan 14/21
How can we have loud, complicated Euro sex when Covid means our kid is always home?
by DAN SAVAGE, Jan 6/21
A reader dreams of Andrew Rannells and isn’t sure why, so Dan asks Andrew Rannells.
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 16/20
What kind of person would do that?
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 9/20
New partners, real regrets, too much cum.
by DAN SAVAGE, Dec 3/20
Finding ways to end things gracefully (or not).
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 27/20
One app or two? One boyfriend or two? And three-, four-, ten- or hundredsomes?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 19/20
Is it a heteronormative plot, or just logistics?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 16/20
Holy pretzel! What in tarnation is happening?
by DAN SAVAGE, Nov 5/20
Some people can be open with their partners about their pasts, but it’s not compulsory.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 29/20
I’ve heard from countless people over the years who found something close to what they were looking for in their fifties, sixties and even seventies.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 25/20
A reader needs help understanding—and forgiving.
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 15/20
What to do when you want to be more than “friends who have sex sometimes.”
by DAN SAVAGE, Oct 1/20
What to do when things go wrong with a friend, with an escort and with a Trump-loving mom.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 24/20
When a new relationship goes from dating to meet-my-kid way too quickly.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 17/20
Porn is probably to blame, but no choke: Strangulation during sex is dangerous.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 10/20
You don’t need permission from anybody to think about sexual fantasy figures.
by DAN SAVAGE, Sep 3/20
But sometimes impossible fantasies are a way to avoid scary sex.
by DAN SAVAGE, Aug 27/20
Ask a simple question about diaper play, get a simple answer.
by DAN SAVAGE, Aug 20/20