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Santorum’s frothy return 

The US senator may be a presidential hopeful now, but nine years ago he was in the news for something else entirely.


Q I remember reading your definition of "santorum"---"the frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the by-product of anal sex"---when it first appeared. I remember thinking it was a cute way to make fun of a dickhead politician. I never thought it would go this far. But after Iowa, Rick Santorum is in the spotlight again. And so is that frothy mixture. And that's fucking awesome. --Jeff In Wisconsin

A Don't thank me, JIW. Thank Rick Santorum for making his bigotry crystal clear in a 2003 interview with the Associated Press. Santorum equated consensual gay sex with child rape and dog-fucking, he stated that birth control should be illegal, he argued that states should be able to arrest, prosecute, and imprison people---gay and straight---for private, consensual sex acts.

Thank the "Savage Love" reader who, after reading that interview, urged me to invite my readers to submit new definitions for Santorum's last name. And thank the "Savage Love" readers who---in their wisdom---selected "the frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the by-product of anal sex" from a crowded field of equally repulsive candidates.

Q Dan Savage is one sick, pathetic excuse for a human being. Truly a sad piece of shit. Especially trying to "insert himself"---pun intended---into the GOP presidential race. --Savage Isn't Completely Kind

A We redefined "santorum" back in 2003, SICK, long before Santorum was running for president. So it would be more accurate to say that the GOP presidential race has inserted itself into me, not the other way around. And, gosh, I hope there isn't any santorum on the GOP presidential race when it pulls out of me---that would be so embarrassing!

Also embarrassing: Elise Foley's gushing profile of Elizabeth Santorum, Rick's adult daughter, that appeared on The Huffington Post before the Iowa caucuses.

"It is tough [being] a young surrogate for a candidate/father clinging to an older worldview," Foley writes. "Her father's stance on same-sex marriage and gay rights, in particular, has caused some friction from non-supporters. 'It's a policy thing,' [Elizabeth Santorum] said of gay marriage...Opposed to same-sex marriage herself, Elizabeth said she has gay friends who support her father's candidacy based on his economic and family platforms."

Yeah, it's tough out there for a 'phobe---and it's getting tougher all the time. Rick Santorum was nearly booed off a stage in New Hampshire last week after he insisted that legalizing gay marriage would lead to the legalization of polygamous marriage. You know what else is tough? Gay widowers losing their homes after the deaths of their spouses because they don't qualify for the same social security benefits as all other married couples. Also tough: seeing your wife deported because the federal government doesn't recognize your marriage.

But, hey, Elizabeth Santorum isn't a bigot---she can't be! She has gay friends! And her gay friends support her dad!

To Ms. Foley and all the other political reporters out there: When someone like Elizabeth Santorum tells you that she has gay friends and her gay friends support her dad based on his "family platforms"---gay people shouldn't be allowed to have families---your subject is making an astonishing claim. Your immediate response should be a demand for the names and phone numbers of these gay friends. Offer to quote these gay friends anonymously, to protect their privacy/stupidity, but tell the homophobe that you will need to verify the existence of her gay friends because you're a journalist, not a stenographer. You'll either catch the homophobe in a very revealing lie---what does it tell us about this moment in the struggle for LBGT equality that even bigots like Rick and Elizabeth Santorum perceive a political risk in being perceived as homophobic?---or land a fascinating interview with a crazy-ass faggot.

Q I've been a loyal reader for half my life. Today, a friend and I got into a debate about you. My friend says your campaign to redefine "santorum" flies in the face of your anti-bullying It Gets Better campaign. Would you please address this issue? --Google Problems

A First, GP, the campaign is over: Santorum has been redefined.

Second, taking the piss out of a middle-aged bigot who has repeatedly and viciously attacked a tiny minority for personal and political gain---a man surrounded by people who support him personally, politically and financially---is not the moral equivalent of beating the shit out of a vulnerable and isolated 13-year-old queer kid in rural Texas who is a member of the tiny minority this powerful bigot has repeatedly attacked.

Third, circling back to Elizabeth Santorum's blowjob on HuffPo: Elizabeth "is aware of her father's so-called 'Google problem,' part of a campaign by columnist Dan Savage...'That just makes me sad. It's disappointing that people can be that mean,' she said."

I'm sorry for giving you a sad, Elizabeth. You know what gave me a sad? Reading about Janice Langbehn and Lisa Pond. The women, together 18 years, were vacationing in Florida in 2007 with three of their four children when Pond suffered an aneurysm. Langbehn and the children were barred from Pond's room when they arrived at the hospital. A social worker informed Langbehn that she wouldn't be able to see her wife because they were in an "anti-gay city and state."

Lisa Pond was not a "policy thing," Elizabeth. She was a human being. And her wife and children were prevented from saying goodbye to her because people who agree with you and your father---people who doubtless felt empowered to act on their bigotry thanks to high-profile bigots--- persecuted them as Pond lay dying.

By being so mean as to oppose legal protections for gay and lesbian families, Elizabeth, you and your father are trying to make sure that other families headed by same-sex couples will suffer as Langbehn, Pond and their children were made to suffer. It is disappointing how mean some people can be, Elizabeth, it really is.

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