Older, Not Wiser

So 20 years ago you married the guy you now hate with a passion and who is the father of your two children. That didn't last 10 years and you tell everyone your mistake was to marry a pretty boy who was great in the sack but a creep otherwise. Then about 10 years ago you get married to a party boy with a big dick (your words) but no money, personality, or prospects. No learning there, huh? So that has now ended and almost immediately you're hooked up with a guy who may have some cash but has the personality of a rabid dog and all the good looks of a talking penis on 2 legs.
Even in your 40s you're still great-looking. You're charming socially and everyone seems to like you. You turn heads everywhere. You could have you pick of doctors, lawyers, indian chiefs, whatever you like. When will you learn there is more to a long-term relationship than banging?
---Amazed and Sad