Savage Love

Enjoy a load of sex advice short snappers, from pube preferences to pee play.

“I’m a 60-something cis woman with a 30-something cis man lover…”

Is it healthy to masturbate about a dead lover?

“I want to feel queerer and a little less mainstream!”

“I want to be a good gay uncle, but honestly, I'm an objectively poor role model”

From dating a friend's ex to dating a sister's ex to drinking pee platonically (?), the questions are flying fast.

Sure, it sounds kinda gross, but at least this Canadian "cumsumer" isn't hurting anyone, unlike those fascist assholes in trucks currently blocking border crossings.

Your trusty sex advisor goes looking for answers about thorough prostate exams, but steers clear of a debate in the diaper community.

A reader wonders how to thank a friend without benefits, without weirdness.

Warning: this week’s sex advice column contains math. But only a little bit.

Wallowing after a breakup is fine, but the way to really get over it is to get out.

Plus some straight talk to the straight guy who writes in to make a pass at Dan.

Some people are too conceited and self-satisfied to realize they are the problem.

From changing (adult) diapers to being (almost) happily single.

Making the scary leap from fantasy to reality involves not just good communication with your partner, but excessive communication.

This is a situation where a partner’s reaction to one thing says everything.

“Things are often more complex than the online ‘age gap discourse’ acknowledges.”

Plus even more sex advice in a column full of quickies.

For the woman who hasn't peed in peace for 5 years, the advice is clear.

Power tripping straight guy is confused by his fondness for teasing gay guys.