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Thursday, February 27, 2020
Calm and reasonable opinions / Grow up / Matters of the heart / WTF Treatise from an angry queer
Posted By Team Coast on Thu, Feb 27, 2020 at 4:42 PM
I am in a safe, positive, loving and committed relationship with a man who I love and care for immensely. This does NOT mean that I have not also dated and been attracted to women and non-binary, genderqueer, etc., folks. This does NOT mean I am now straight or cis, or secretly was all along. This does NOT erase my lifelong experiences of confusion, and struggles to understand who I am. I mostly lean towards femme these days, because it's slightly less exhausting, and there are people in my life who aren't ready to understand or accept how I identify.
”Passing” is NOT a privilege. It is a constant struggle with my own identity being discredited, doubted and dismissed, which causes inner turmoil and self-doubt. I acknowledge that some of these worries are internal/projections, but I have seen in-fighting in queer communities that seems to imply that non-binary or bi folks aren’t "queer enough,” because we want access to queer spaces/communities but are perceived as somehow not having to "do the work" of being visibly identifiable as gay, lesbian, etc. Gender non-conforming folks have NO OBLIGATION to look a certain way. Anyone who excludes or passes judgment on couples who APPEAR hetero and/or cis is making A LOT of assumptions about their identities and past experiences. Nobody can assume what a person has already been through, will later experience or where they are on their journey to understanding their gender and sexuality.
I am SICK of queer people in-fighting and posting shit about other "so-called queer" people/couples who don't look or behave queerly enough in public spaces. But there are tons of reasons why folks might not be able to perform that way.
We need to support people, not exclude them. This shit is complicated and a lot of folks who grew up in a time before this stuff was openly talked about need to take their time to figure out how THEY identify, even if it doesn’t look obvious. — No Longer A Mess
Monday, February 24, 2020
Don't be a dick / Grow up / WTF Why even?
Posted By Team Coast on Mon, Feb 24, 2020 at 1:20 PM
To the guy stomping around the north end wearing shitty far-right patches on his clothes: why are you wasting your time with that trash? Grow up! You look like you’re in your 40s, it looks like you could use a friend! Go out and meet people, drop that bullshit hate you literally wear. Get off of 4chan and start engaging with people, stop it. It’s really difficult to watch someone make such poor decisions and expect to not get decked. As a safety measure just stop okay. You need to get a hobby or something, jeeez. — You Don’t Have To Be Forever Alone
Thursday, November 21, 2019
Don't be a dick / Grow up / Male tears / Throwdown! "You know it, Fatty"
Posted By Team Coast on Thu, Nov 21, 2019 at 10:05 AM
I'm not sure what made you feel the need to try and ruin my morning with your bullshit remarks, but it didn't work. I know I look good. Phat is where it's at. You look like a limp little pissant, mad at the world, walking thru life with your little pink pecker full of hate.
—Yah I'm Hawt And I Do Know It, Bitch
Friday, August 30, 2019
Class Warfare / Going nowhere / Grow up To the drunk panhandler in big-box land
Posted By Team Coast on Fri, Aug 30, 2019 at 12:15 PM
—Everyone Shopping There
Everyone's a critic / Grow up / You know nothing Croaky voice
Posted By Team Coast on Fri, Aug 30, 2019 at 9:47 AM
—Hatethecroaky
Tuesday, July 9, 2019
Animal kingdumb / Another bus bitch / Being Bold / Don't be a dick / Enjoy the show! / Etiquette, please / Flu bitchademic / For your health / Garbage people / Getting around / Grow up / WTF / You do you Pick at home and cover your mouth
Posted By Team Coast on Tue, Jul 9, 2019 at 8:17 AM
—Wishing for some hand sanitizer
Friday, July 5, 2019
Butt out / Canadiana / Garbage people / Good neighbours / Grow up / Mad as Hell Barbecue bigot
Posted By Team Coast on Fri, Jul 5, 2019 at 10:00 AM
My wife was nicer than I would have been and somehow humoured your bullshit, even though she knew what you were saying was wrong.
Oh, your grandfather was responsible for immigrants being here (whatever THAT means)? So fucking what? What right would that give YOU to tell anyone what they can and can’t say to each other, or in what language they do it? In what language do you need to be told that we have freedom of expression in this country before that sinks in, moron? Was your grandfather the one of driving people from their homes in the first place? Is that what you meant? Well, your sad existence certainly attests to that possibility.
My wife and her friends put it behind them and I’ve tried to do the same, but days later this still gnaws at me. I want to believe that we are better than this and that cowards like you are a shrinking minority. I want to be able to ignore this as the ranting of some asshole, but I can’t because saying nothing just emboldens dipshits like you. Silence is complicity. I was born and raised here and I will not be complicit in letting a limp-dick piece of shit like you be the face of my home.
—Pissed-off Nova Scotian
Monday, July 16, 2018
Grow up Accident on the Mackay Bridge
Posted By Team Coast on Mon, Jul 16, 2018 at 11:50 AM
—Late for supper
Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Grow up Laundry room annoyances
Posted By Team Coast on Tue, Mar 14, 2017 at 11:03 AM
You do understand a laundry room in an apartment building is a shared space because other people DO exist, yes? Those other apartments in the building are occupied by humans known to you as your fellow tenants…You've probably noticed some of them around from time to time, yes?
So... assuming you're an adult now, it's your responsibility to clean the lint tray, throw your dryer sheets in the garbage instead of leaving them in the machine or dropped on the floor and take care of the dried pieces of tissue you forgot in your pocket again.. Also it'd be awesome if you'd not leave your clean dry clothes in one of the few newer dryers for hours sometimes where some of your fellow tenants might be hesitant to touch them and take them out so they can use the machine, especially on a Sunday when the room is most busy.
In shared spaces the right thing to do is be cool and considerate by cleaning up after yourself, unless of course your mommy or maid or robot are coming behind you to clean up after you, IDK?
Have some fuckin’ respect and consideration, pretty, pretty please —Tired of having to touch your underwear
Friday, June 24, 2016
Grow up Bad Rads
Posted on Fri, Jun 24, 2016 at 4:00 AM
Friday, May 27, 2016
Grow up He's such a better cook than you all
Posted on Fri, May 27, 2016 at 4:00 AM
Friday, May 8, 2015
Grow up Honesty?
Posted on Fri, May 8, 2015 at 4:00 AM
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