I don’t know if you even read this. But if you do: I want my bestie to leave you. For some demented reason she won’t do it on her own. You’re bad news; you use and abuse her (not physically, but mentally and emotionally) you’re constantly trying to secure something better – while dangling her at the side. You lie about being together and keep her as your dirty little secret – how do you think she feels about that? It’s been year! Stop hiding the truth – you can live without her, but you have a much better life with her. Either man up or leave her, she’ll get over it eventually. It beats her sticking around and feeling useless, like I know her does. —I love her more than you do