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Monday, February 11, 2013

Call a spade a spade

Posted on Mon, Feb 11, 2013 at 11:41 AM

Look, no one is telling you who to fuck and how to fuck them but if you are meeting total strangers on the internet, not even getting their first name, and having unprotected anal sex with them the first time you meet in real life you are no practicing "safe sex." And when people who use condoms, ask for sexual history from partners (or even ask partners for for their name first) and get regularly tested decline to fuck you as a result of your sexual choices they are not "slut shaming" you, trying to control your body, practicing hetereo-normative reactionary sexual politics, self hating queers or being manipulative. They are being honest and using a definition of safe sex that sane people would actually recognize. Fuck who you want. Fuck how you want. But if you want to fuck dangerously admit that that's what you're doing and definitely don't be shocked or offended when other people recognize it as risky behaviour. —Fuck Who You Want

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