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Friday, November 9, 2012

The truth

Posted on Fri, Nov 9, 2012 at 10:27 AM

It really frustrates me that men have to lie to women in order to keep them happy, and to stay in a relationship. Men can't be honest and tell them that we are visual and yes we love a nice ass, or great tits. If a hot girl is wearing leggings and she has a great ass, it is actually impossible for us not to look at it. Sure, some guys will take that further and cheat, or flirt and that is not fair to anyone. There is nothing wrong with looking, and women like to do the same. They just like to hold men up to a standard and think that we are pigs.

Women should also be able to look at a hot guy, hell even fantasize about it and come home and fuck their husband. Women say that they don't want guys that lie, but every guy lies because he has to in order to stay in a relationship. Women will call a man a pig for looking at a nice ass, and then read Fifty Shades of Grey. What a double standard. The imagination is actually more powerful so technically that is worse.

So your guy is obviously attracted to women and that is how he met you in the first place, and now suddenly, he should turn his attraction for the female figure off and only be attracted to one female figure. Plus, in a beach full of people wearing thongs, most females would actually look at the nice female asses, and that shows even they know that females are sexy. We should be able to live in harmony. We should be happy knowing that, that person is with you, so that says a lot. You should be able to people watch, comment on attractive people, be turned on by other sexy people, watch porn together and let your partner reap the rewards of all of this that you do together. Let’s all just live a life of complete honesty. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey do not need to exist for women. Just be honest about how you feel. If we all lived in this world and all had a free and clear relationship full of honesty, relationships would last. Women, if you are reading this and deny this is true, then you are truly in denial. If your husband says that what I have written here is false, there is an example of being lied to. What else is he lying about? How do you like it? —Let it Help, Not Hurt

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