OK, so in light of the recent tragedy in BC with the young girl who took her own life because of years of physical and cyber bullying who can we blame? They all say blame the bullies it's their fault, yes in hindsight it is their fault but when we take a step back and ask ourselves how does one become a bully? It's a lack of parenting if you ask me. Parents are either not involved in their child's life or they are just a piece of shit parent. A bully does not know how to be a bully out of no where its a learned behaviour based on their own self insecurities, lack of self-confidence, and just being a scared child. I'm not sympathizing with the junior and high school bullies it most definitely is their fault for this tragedy but if a child is not capable of understanding rationally like an adult who the hell is to blame for this?? Parents should be allowed to hit their kids, I was spanked and I was NEVER a bully! —Blondie