Your girlfriend is a friend of mine. I haven't seen her in a long time. When I do see her, she seems drained, depressed, worried, stressed out and angry. She doesn't say a word to me about you. She's PROTECTING you (instead of herself). All she's ever said is that you're always telling her she must be cheating on you, or lying to you or keeping things from you. You're fucked for constantly trying to throw shit in her face that she isn't doing. She can't prove you wrong even though you are. I know you yell at her. I know you swear at her. You probably hit her too or push her around. Let me make sure you get this straight. I have nothing against you. You seem like a really nice guy. You do have issues though. I am not sure what they are, but they're really embedded into your head and it's probably really hard for you to learn to get over them or cope with them. What I do want to tell you is that your girlfriend loves you a lot. I've never seen her so attached and forgiving to anyone in her life. She's her own person though and you need to see that. She's afraid of you. So, stop holding my friend back. Treat her like the sweet, intelligent girl she is and open your fucking eyes. You have an incredible girl standing beside you so get your shit together and realize that you're an abusive fuck who will probably kill her one day (she probably knows it). She deserves to be happy and you better start giving it to her. —Fed Up Friend