Are there any normal men over age 30 using online dating sites? Scammers aside, the only responses that I've gotten have been from men with serious (and I mean serious!) personality and lifestyle flaws. Is it too much to ask for someone who a) has a job, b) has enough education that they can spell their own name correctly, c) doesn't consider alcohol and/or drugs to be essential for basic functioning, and d) bathes on a semi-regular basis? I don't think I'm too picky! I'm using online dating because I'm in a female-dominated career, and most of the men I know are either married or in serious relationships. Where are you nice, normal, thirty-something men? —Losing Faith in the System